sticky situation

hey mammas. i’m searching for advice; i’m pregnant with a break up / make up baby and cannot handle his stress and borderline hatred for me. i’m contemplating it all.. but nothing scares me more than me not having my career where i want it and being a single mom.

7

Read more on Peanut

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.

Learn more about our guidelines.

Add a comment

Choose yourself.

i had a lot of back and forth with myself regarding keeping or ending my pregnancy due to fear of doing everything alone. I’m deciding to keep it but i still have those days where it’s like … should i ? i just have faith in myself and know that i can do it . just ask yourself which decision you’d regret more long term ; keeping the baby and putting a pause on furthering your career and being a single mom, or getting an abortion. which ever does not sit right with you the most . use that to make a choice

in our community

Restaurants allowing dogs defecating indoors

I was having lunch at a restaurant, mind I was sitting inside not in the street, and the dog of a customer who brought in his dog defeated on the floor of the restaurant. The guy used naptiks to clean up the feces and put the inside a bag. Am I right to feel disgusted and that this shouldn't be allowed?

15

Partner going back to work after paternity leave :(

Is anyone else (or have you) struggling with the idea of being on your own for most of the day once your partner goes back to work after paternity leave?
Mine goes back tomorrow and I’m sad/anxious/stressed.. just struggling :(

1

8

Girl mums

I have a 4 month old I know I’m a woman myself but I don’t know how it is with a 4 month old obviously I know you have hormones in the vag area but I’ve started to realise when I wipe her now she has the smallest bit of yellow everytime I wipe when changing her I wipe front to back always so it’s not poo and I always make sure she’s really clean is this normal? It doesn’t smell and it is tinie tiny yellow but should I go to gp? Or it’s completely normal? Please don’t be mean I’m new to this.

3

Returning to Work

Guys, I finally go back to work tomorrow and I feel like crying 😂
I would genuinely rather quit my job and stay home then leave my baby 🥲
I mean he will be perfectly fine bc he will be home with Daddy along with 2 afternoons a week at nursery but I just feel so sad about it!

Does everyone else feel this way 🫣 I already demoted myself and reduced my gmh as I hate the idea of being away for so many hours 🤣

2

19

sticky situation

hey mammas. i’m searching for advice; i’m pregnant with a break up / make up baby and cannot handle his stress and borderline hatred for me. i’m contemplating it all.. but nothing scares me more than me not having my career where i want it and being a single mom.