Wrong right ?

I had childhood trauma and so does my husband to be fair - we both had very angry yelling cold type of parents (his dad and my mum) I always said I will not be that person for my child … we are both educators (but now I’m a stay at home mum) but what really really really got to me …

Today!
My sons tired, extremely moody because we were at a event yesterday till midnight and he’s had really poor sleep, so I understand his emotions (he’s 3 btw) so I’m being calm when managing his tantrums/metldowns etc. one of his heavy cars fell on his foot and out of rage he threw his little hot wheels car and it went the direction of the tv and broke the tv - my husband at the top of his lungs YELLED in my sons face, loads of words frankly not that my sons even understanding I saw he had already gone into a flight or fight panic …. So I intervened and told my husband to stop yelling it’s not going to help or get through to him about what he has done as he’s already shut off with fear … my husband continued to try yell.. I removed my son away from him. I get it the tv is broken we don’t have money for another but in my viewpoint I don’t see how YELLING loudly in a toddlers face is going to help either, not like he’s can fix the tv the most he can do is say sorry and not to throw things because this is the damage it does but again, he’s 3. At this time point, I’m fed up trying to make my husband understand how to speak or teach children yet flaunts that he works with children, his pride and ego and by the seems of it temper is a MASSIVE issue when teaching our son and frankly I’m done…

What are your thoughts because he seems to think I let my son get away with things - when actually I’m very stern with my son but teach him without having to SCREAM in his face

Sorry for the rant I am just extremely
Disappointed

in our community

What do i do ?

Ladies please help! My boy is almost 8 months old and is still on pureed/lumpy foods. Any time i go to give him something more solid i have a complete anxiety attack, my legs go like jelly and my heart hammers out of my chest. Hes gagged twice before when i tried to give him toast and another time when I gave him on of them melty sticks, it foesnt help that hes a rammer ans shoves it all into his mouth.I just tried him with cucumber sticks, he was fine but I was thay scared I felt like I was going to pass out. I just cant do it. Am I depriving him if I dont give him finger foods/ affecting his development? He loves his food and eats a massive variety, its just spoon fed to him. What can I do to make this better?

Fml

Feel so shit, got a 2yr old & a 2wk old and literally hate the newborn stage so much.

Pist off my toddler only wants my hubby since hes been on paternity leave and wont let me do anything

Newborn just wants to be on the boob all the time restricting what I can do and time i spend with toddler

Was just about to go to softplay but baby is screaming the car down so ive bailed and said I may aswell just stay at home glued to the sofa with him and sent my hubby off with our toddler

Now sat in tears because im so fed up and cant help but wish we never had another now 😭

No interest in difficult things

My son has just turned 4 and I’m finding it incredibly difficult. He has no interest in learning things that are slightly difficult for him. Gives up instantly no matter what I try to do to motivate him to try.

It’s mostly athletic/sporty things. Won’t kick a ball back and forth or football, learn to catch, float or swim. Definitely won’t try to learn to ride a bike, we’ve tried a balance bike but the balancing scared him. So tried a tricycle so the balancing isn’t an option but barely tries to push the pedals.

Honestly it’s starting to get me upset. Is this normal for his age? Anyone have any tips? Should I just ride it out? 😂

Anyone else feel their partner just doesn’t get it??

We’re dog sitting at my father in laws and my partner has just started shouting at me because I woke him up as my son just threw up all over the place. He’s called me the a**hole because he was asleep both me and my son were covered in sick and now he’s told me to not go anywhere near him because I woke him up… he’s currently bathing our son but told me he doesn’t know what my problem is and why I just couldn’t deal with it all by myself.

But yesterday he woke me up because he didn’t know what to do as our son felt warm…

Does anyone else’s partner just not get it….

Is it time to end the marriage?

My husband and I can’t get along. We don’t share the same interests. I’m a bookworm and he’s a party man who loves to drink on the weekends. We tried to get along. We tried for years. I’ve been begging him to even talk to me since we got married and I’ve been settling for the bare minimum. He can’t even look me in the eyes when he talks to me. He was so involved and loving until our honeymoon. He left me in Spain alone because of a small argument. Since we got married we’ve only been having small talk. Kinda like we’re roommates. It’s weird, nothing happened between us, it’s just his personality. He’s emotionally distant, scared to hug me, freaks out if I talk about things that aren’t positive. Hes quick to run out the door. After minor arguments he would leave the house and disappear for days\weeks to his mother’s house-and then come back as if nothing happened. He still does it and leaves me and our toddler alone for weeks. It’s so odd. He’s like that with his friends too and his own family. He just doesn’t talk.. unless he’s drunk. Anyway, long story short, I can’t keep living like this. I feel sorry that my child has to see her mother go through this. I don’t want her to think this is ok.. what do you think?

in tears atm

So i just asked my partner to not play on his ps5 so we can spemd time and watch a movie together given it’s mother’s day today. And i was greeted with’ all my mates are playing, why can’t i, they have kids they are married why can’t i play’. Called me selfish. Acting like he has to listen to me like he has to sacrifice his games. Mind you he has all day tomorrow. Yeah I should’nt cry but i had a tough day with bub and this was the cherry on top.