I’m just so frustrated cuz for about three months now my 3 year old daughter who is fully potty training trained both day and night now decides to pee herself whenever she is throwing a tantrum so much so that I hav to bring change of clothes to her daycare about 2-3 times a week. It’s so draining and stressful I don’t know what to do. I have spoken to her , restricted her toys and tv on days she does it , but still not getting anywhere. Any one had experience on what to do? I’m frustrated . I even talk to her before I drop her off at daycare and she still does it. It’s getting very frustrating
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I wouldn't be punishing her for it personally.
Are you sure she's not getting ill, no signs of UTI or anything.
Have there been any big life changes recently?
Have you asked her why and what has she said?

Don’t punish her for that.
She could very well have an underdeveloped bladder that’s not strong enough to hold it.
She’s still growing and developing.

If shes mad while doing it maybe she’s holding then so distracted because of whatever else she’s forgetting she was holding and letting go? Are nursery taking her to the loo on regular intervals? Maybe take a step back to basics, to me it sounds like genuine accidents getting wrapped up in other emotions x

My daughter did this the other day, she had a massive tantrum and then stood over my rug and peed a full wee while laughing and staring at me. Steam came out of my ears. No advice.