I’m sorry, but please tell me am I wrong? The father of my child basically the sperm donor when I first got pregnant. He didn’t want nothing to do with my child. I ended up getting married to my wife and she stepped in and her name is actually on the birth certificate because she stepped in and did her job when she didn’t have to now all of a sudden her father is now trying to be involved and I personally don’t have anything against that but I also want him to understand that it’s not just up to me. My wife has say at the end of the day me and my wife are our team so it has to work for the both of us. You know what I mean am I wrong for feeling that way he’s getting an attitude because he thinks that I’m keeping the baby from him, but it’s not just up to me at least to me that’s how I see it. Me and my wife are happy and content again I’m not keeping her from him, but I can’t just make decisions without my wife being involved specially when she’s legally and heavily involved
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I think you’re right of involving him as much as your wife is comfortable since he didn’t fight for his rights until he knew someone else assume his responsibilities.

What is his reasoning for wanting to come around now? He has no leg to stand on nor does he have any sway in decision making involving said child. Do you just want your daughter to know that she has a dad out there?