Is it bad i just want someone to flirt with me? I just want to feel pretty..

I work with mostly guys and just something as simple as them acknowledging I'm smart or laughing their ass off at my jokes makes me feel good. I'd say going on chat rooms is a bit much, but after having kids and being with someone for a while it's definitely nice to get some attention to remind you you're more than "just a mom"

Nothing wrong with wanting to feel noticed and appreciated. I definitely agree that chat rooms may be too far, but that’s a conversation for you and your partner. In general, I believe a conversation with your partner is warranted. If they are anything like my husband, they think the compliments, or the flirts, or the cat calls, but just don’t act on it. Mostly out of concern that they would be overwhelming you or that you wouldn’t want it at that time. I had to tell mine to compliment me whenever it pops in his head and now I can’t get away from lingering hands lol

I wouldn't want to flirt with anyone but my hubby.
You may need to have a talk with your husband. Communicate with him and see if there is way to bring that spark back in. I would try to work in your relationship now before going to look somewhere else.
It's my opinion that while going to chat rooms isn't physical cheating it is emotional cheating and if found out can cause just as much hurt as getting caught physical cheating.

Honestly…talk dirty with your husband!! Puns is a good way to start, normal conversation>someone says something that could be a double entandre>say I’d xyz> boom and do that all the time casually and Spicy and eventually it’ll be apart of the relationship dynamic