Moan/rant/advice I don’t know 😅

A family member is moaning about paying £80 a month for food for her little one at nursery and I’ve just seen another post someone moaning about paying £50. Both seem to be sending their children nursery 2 days a week so have the funded. Now I’m paying £550 a month my boy goes 4 days a week so technically paying for just 2. I work 4 days a week and have no one else to have him other than nursery. Am i doing something wrong why am I paying £550 and people are moaning about £50!?
Am I missing something I get the funded and pay into the gov are for the 10% am I missing some other trick 🤷🏼‍♀️ we have another starting September so that’s £1000. I just don’t understand how people are angry for paying so little or am I being silly and been over paying missing a trick 😩 please help 🤣🙏🏼

in our community

Getting ghosted

I’m so close to giving up on meeting other mums🙄
I get ghosted all the time 🙄
Which is weird because they are always like “I want more mum friends and a friend to hang out with my kid” like not getting back in days is ok but weeks or ever wtf😅 anyone else having this problem? Do people come on here to meet people or what?😅
I just wanted a friend for my kid so he’s more social

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Need to make some friends 🥲 since becoming a mum I lost a lot of people I’m 21 with a 2 year old from Kent🩷

Gay??

How do you know if you been with man who is gay ??

Am i wrong

I’m sorry, but please tell me am I wrong? The father of my child basically the sperm donor when I first got pregnant. He didn’t want nothing to do with my child. I ended up getting married to my wife and she stepped in and her name is actually on the birth certificate because she stepped in and did her job when she didn’t have to now all of a sudden her father is now trying to be involved and I personally don’t have anything against that but I also want him to understand that it’s not just up to me. My wife has say at the end of the day me and my wife are our team so it has to work for the both of us. You know what I mean am I wrong for feeling that way he’s getting an attitude because he thinks that I’m keeping the baby from him, but it’s not just up to me at least to me that’s how I see it. Me and my wife are happy and content again I’m not keeping her from him, but I can’t just make decisions without my wife being involved specially when she’s legally and heavily involved

Choosing to stay at home

I had my little one in January and after thinking about it for a long time I decided to stay home with him. With The price of daycare it honestly didn’t make sense for me to go back to work. My fiancé and I both worked at our local hospital I was there for about 6 years and honestly when he gets home and tells me about his day I miss it. I also don’t have a car so I can’t go anywhere during the day. Which makes finding a part time job very hard. It’s not that I regret choosing to stay home. I love that I get to spend so much time with my son and see him change and grow into his personality. But I do miss my job and I miss my friends. Does anybody else feel this way. Does it get better?

Couples therapy! Please share your experience! Did it help?

I’m thinking to start couples therapy as soon as possible. We have big communication issues. And my husband doesn’t understand that silent treatment and stone walling is unacceptable.
Did you try couples therapy and what was your experience?