Tired of the sexist bullshit
I live with my sons paternal grandfather. He doesnt want me to work and he doesnt want to drive me to work and he thinks my sons dad would be "babysitting" if he watches our son. Even if I get my license or get an uber im sure he will still try to come up with some other reason to tell me to stop working. I can't take it anymore. He also does a lot of other things that bother me.
He films me obsessively without consent (he did the same thing to my husbands exs), he does it at home and in public and even at my sons doctor appointments.
He spanked my child, he thinks women shouldn't work, he is offended if i buy something with my own money without him knowing, he rubbed my hair with a towel. He makes innapropriate comments to me such as "honey im home", "Where are we going now hun?", "i am a piss poor driver" "your husband is pussy whipped" "are you gonna have another one?" (Asking me if i will have another baby with a creepy look on his face. The way he said it and the way he looked at me when he said it didn't sit right with me.) He also got mad when I told him to stop filming me. He also tries to look at my phone screen a lot. Ive had times where he would try to look at my screen and ask me "what are you reading?" And ive had times where he would ask me who I am calling if he hears me on a phone call. He also gives me a mean look whenever I use my phone. Its almost like he thinks I am not allowed to use my phone at all even though he is the one filming me all the time. My entire nervous system feels nervous everytime he is around me. He pretends to care about me when he actually just wants to control me. I think he is a creep and I also think he is sexist.
