I cannot be the only mum heading to bed right after I put my toddler down????

I'm a SAHM with a 15 month old. She naps a total of 1 hour during the day. Still on 2 naps. I'm EXHAUSTED by 7.30pm when she goes to bed. She is up at 6am so I literally find myself crawling into bed the moment I've got her down. Sometimes I scroll for an hour. But sometimes I'm going straight to sleep.

Anyone with me???

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Yep I’m the same with my 16 month old she is go go go all day 1 to 2 naps depending on the length of the first then asleep by 8 at the latest, up at 7-7:30 to start again

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Your not the only one I do the same x

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Does your partner help with the night shift?

I feel guilty for asking for help during the night as I know he has to work in the day but I’m shattered from doing all the night feeds (our baby is bottle fed) 😥

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Transition to own room, cot or floor bed?

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I'm considering getting him a floor bed. 1 so he can lots of space and 2 if he ever needs me in bed with him I can easily just go there but my questions when they figure out they can't get out of bed how do you stop them because with a cot its got the sides so they can't get out but what about a floor bed? How are we keeping them safe? All I can think is when he gets to like toddler age he'll likely be in and out bed a lot.

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