Boundaries

You haven’t said how old your baby is but you need to think of a plan to exit.
Sounds like a controlling and disrespectful situation and no disregard for you.

If you are in a home where you don’t have a voice ever - your baby will grow to pick up on this and see you physically but will grow to interpret that you don’t have any say in the home.

Co-parenting with him will be a job but living like this forever - it’s worse!

Thats tricky without knowing the specifics. The dynamic sounds really unhealthy though. However unfortunately she is both of your child, so you can't just decide how you want things to be... even if you're right!

I guess check in with yourself. Are the boundaries you are setting reasonable or based in PPA/OCD/PPD ? Is he unwilling to compromise or are you or both of you? Tbh if he's saying he doesnt care about your feelings he sounds like a pretty sh*tty partner... even if you're being super unreasonable thats a really horrible thing to say. Coparenting might be your only choice.

I can’t begin to imagine how uncomfortable you feel. Grandparents should respect your wishes & boundaries and so should your husband regardless if he doesn’t agree with your boundaries, ultimately he’s putting his parents feelings before yours.

If people don’t respect my boundaries they don’t get the privilege to be present unfortunately 🤷🏼‍♀️

Mums know best, if you want to leave you should 100% leave!! The thought is scary but you need to put your baby & you first.

Hope you’re ok 💘💘

I honestly felt broken while reading your text . It s so unfortunate that 90 percent of men are like that when it comes to their parents. They would also prefer to follow their parents rather than agreeing with u as the wife to create a peaceful and happy home . I think it s because most men were never thought to be emotionally intelligent while growing up so when they get into relationships and end up in marriage, the woman is always ready to leave her past things just to follow the hushands but this is never the same for men. They would rather please everyone except of you that you re living with them. I cant tell u to leave him because with this kind behaviour u would really need to be courageous because that family would let u pass through things and even if you decide to coparent and leave him still the issue might be worse because definitely the child would be spending days with the dad and he can choose to take her to the parents or dince they re living together, the parents will definitely be in the

The parents will definitely be in the picture and u wouldnt know what they did for your child like now u can see whatever they are doing and saying . So i will suggest before u leave if u decide to, detach your feelings from this family, gather enough money that can sustain u nd the child incase ur husband refuse to take responsibility when u go . And think about urself and the child. Forget about them and live happily. If u believe in God too u can pray and ask God to protect u and thr child even when u re not around her . May God strengthen u in this difficult situation .