Is it rude to not give a gift?

My teenager has a birthday party tonight & I honestly can’t afford to buy the girl a gift or give money in a card. I am struggling financially and don’t have the funds to send her with a gift or sacrifice $20 I don’t really have right now. I’m considering just giving a birthday card but is this rude/wrong?

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Vitamin D yes or no? (Breastfeeding mums)

I’m a first-time mum and I’m exclusively breastfeeding. Since I started giving my baby vitamin D drops, he seems to have stomach pain, discomfort, and gas. This morning he also vomited some yellow fluid (bile). I contacted NHS 111 and got a GP appointment this afternoon.
The doctor told me that I don’t need to give my baby vitamin D because it’s already in my breast milk. However, my health visitor and the feeding support team have always told me that I should give vitamin D supplements.
Now I’m confused about what to do. Who is right, and why are they giving different advice?

Relationship 18 weeks pregnant

Today I asked my fiancé to grab me beef ramen packs, super simple super cheep when he got back he brought the wrong thing home I was sad and said I didn’t want what he got, and because he was working on his Pokemon business he got an attitude that he had to drive literally across the street again it hurt my feelings so slammed the door and left it at that and went to shower. After getting out the shower I was straightening the bathroom out and he came up to me not to apologize but to complain , so I shut the door and locked it on him (I didn’t want to hear anymore) and he literally kicked it down the door and frame in it almost fell on me and I lost it. I told him I wish I never got pregnant by him I thought he would be nicer to me while pregnant but it’s never been this bad in our 5 years together. I feel terrible because I wanted to have a baby so bad but now I feel like I regret everything… I’m at a loss and have been driving around for the past 6 hours just because I don’t want to go back home. I don’t have anyone to go to either so I just don’t know what to do ..

Are you tired of looking at the inside of your house????

Listen, I've been a SAHM Mom for about 2yrs now and all my friends have jobs so I rarely see people or have adult conversations! I don't like being on the phone long cause my son is loud. I need more than the inside of my house, who likes park meetups and doing something with the kids just to get out the house!! Hit me up if you're in Atlanta

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New friends<3

Hi! Looking to meet some new people and chat!
I’m a 20yo soon-to-be mom due in October 🤍 I’m a countryside gal who loves horses, cooking from scratch and home making, would love to make some friends with similar interests and values but I’m very open to any new people 🫶🏼 I don’t use social media but would be happy to exchange whatsapps!

Can’t get rid of inappropriate feelings

I get so jealous everytime my boyfriend’s best friend brings home a new girl. I have the biggest crush on him, and it’s so inappropriate. I feel bitter hearing about his flings, and I get so excited when I hear he’s coming over.