Vitamin D yes or no? (Breastfeeding mums)

I’m a first-time mum and I’m exclusively breastfeeding. Since I started giving my baby vitamin D drops, he seems to have stomach pain, discomfort, and gas. This morning he also vomited some yellow fluid (bile). I contacted NHS 111 and got a GP appointment this afternoon.
The doctor told me that I don’t need to give my baby vitamin D because it’s already in my breast milk. However, my health visitor and the feeding support team have always told me that I should give vitamin D supplements.
Now I’m confused about what to do. Who is right, and why are they giving different advice?

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It all worth it

Through all the stress, exhaustion, worry, his sweet smile makes it all worthwhile!

I just don’t want sex. HELP

I’m so baffled by what on earth is going on inside my brain/body right now.
I love my husband. I fancy him which is what’s also confusing me. But I’ve lost all interest in sex since having our son 18 months ago. The more time passes the worse I’m getting. Last night I could tell he was getting a bit touchy feeling so before we went to bed I ran into the bathroom and stuck a load of fake tan on so that I had an excuse as to why I couldn’t do it. I made my apologies and he looked really gutted. He never ever puts pressure on me or ever makes me feel guilty or pressurises me into it which also makes me feel guilty that I don’t sometimes just do it. When we’re doing it it always feels really good. So I’ve no idea why that spark hasn’t lit back up for me.

I am tired and I think I had ppd and anxiety for a while (undiagnosed). But things have felt better and lighter for a while now. The only thing that isn’t back to normal is our sex life. But sex literally never ever crosses my mind. It’s like I’ve gone numb to those desires and it’s out of sight, out of mind. We can go weeks or we probably can do it once a month.

I’m a bit embarrassed to chat to my friends about this.

Are the women in this group just physically incapable of being kind?

So much argumentative and judgemental commenting.
Over-opinionated to the point of being just plain nasty and provocative.

We miss him

Guys my partner works overnights 12-16hr shifts, he’s been on mandatory OT for the span of a month. Before that he was helping a coworker out and they switched schedules for 2weeks, which made his days off be spilt so we didn’t get much time with him before it was mandatory..

I know there’s people who have it worse and never see their person or don’t even have a person. But I just have to take a moment to complain

Within this last month 18 people have been on “injury” leave, 3 more just went on “injury” tonight. One of these mfs hurt his back pulling up his freezer overalls AFTER TAKING A SHIT!

The mando OT is to make up for those people on leave right? They can’t do any hiring to fill in for them because they technically have a full staff, they just all have job security while being on leave 😭

I hate it, me and my daughter miss our guy.. I’m pregnant again and he just hasn’t been able to really be here with us. He tries while he’s home but he’s soo tired..
Yes we know a job is a choice and the $$ is of course great but dam man

Husband secrecy

My husband was vaping til recently when I caught him. He had lied multiple times about it when I’d smell it. I literally thought I was going crazy. He also lied about having a job for 9 months over my pregnancy and postpartum. He had been made redundant and not told me about it. Then spent £6k on a 30th bday holiday for me, told me he lost his job ages ago and he was confident he would get one of two jobs he was interviewing for before he booked my 30th bday holiday. Then after we got back from the holiday he hadn’t got either job so asked me to cover £3k for him. Now I feel like I’ve just paid for my birthday holiday that I never asked for…. I don’t know what to make of this. But any mums exhausted with carrying the mental and financial load over mat leave? Feel like men just don’t have a sense of responsibility, forward planning and just honesty. Like what the actual F

Different Faiths

I am a Christian and my husband is Muslim. We've been having a hard time in our marriage. I don't feel like our marriage is truly God centered. My husband is very lukewarm. He tells me i need to be Muslim and even said that if I want our marriage to work I need to be Muslim. That has just pushed me more into my walk with Christ. I feel like my marriage took away the fire I had to know Him and my devotion. I understand why we aren't not supposed to be unequally yoked.