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Hi mums! How are we staying fit postpartum? I’m ready to start working out but want advice on how other mums do it. Feel like I can never fit it in other than dog walks. What do you find helps slowly getting back into your fitness ?
Any suggestions or tips would be appreciated.

I just don’t want sex. HELP

I’m so baffled by what on earth is going on inside my brain/body right now.
I love my husband. I fancy him which is what’s also confusing me. But I’ve lost all interest in sex since having our son 18 months ago. The more time passes the worse I’m getting. Last night I could tell he was getting a bit touchy feeling so before we went to bed I ran into the bathroom and stuck a load of fake tan on so that I had an excuse as to why I couldn’t do it. I made my apologies and he looked really gutted. He never ever puts pressure on me or ever makes me feel guilty or pressurises me into it which also makes me feel guilty that I don’t sometimes just do it. When we’re doing it it always feels really good. So I’ve no idea why that spark hasn’t lit back up for me.

I am tired and I think I had ppd and anxiety for a while (undiagnosed). But things have felt better and lighter for a while now. The only thing that isn’t back to normal is our sex life. But sex literally never ever crosses my mind. It’s like I’ve gone numb to those desires and it’s out of sight, out of mind. We can go weeks or we probably can do it once a month.

I’m a bit embarrassed to chat to my friends about this.

If you are a sahm, do you think your partner TRULY understands everything you do at home?

Before becoming a sahm I 100000% misunderstood what it meant and what it took. Now that I’m one I feel very overlooked & drained basically every day. So with that said, I MISS having a career :(.

When is everyone returning back to work?

When is everyone returning back to work? And if so are you going back to full time or part time? How many days and how do you request for flexibility working hours?

Are the women in this group just physically incapable of being kind?

So much argumentative and judgemental commenting.
Over-opinionated to the point of being just plain nasty and provocative.

Are we compatible?✨🤎

I’m looking for mom friends!! Don’t need to live near me, even just someone to talk and rant to is good enough for me.
I’m in far northern CA.
•book girl •Christian •boy mama x1 •currently raising chickens (first timer🤭)
• dirt track racing •lover of all music •boyfriend is a mechanic •current SAHM •no 💉 •type B mom
If I sound up your alley shoot me a comment or message! ✨