Single mom life looking for friends

Ladies, my name is Kelsey. I live in Fort Lauderdale. I have a 21 month old son. His name is miles. He is my world.I'm a single mother so it's difficult at times i'm honestly not working.I am on disability.Unfortunately, and every time that i've tried to apply for a job and get a job, my son gets severely sick.And then i'm not able to work, it just been very hectic.So i'm trying to find something at home.But i'm definitely looking for playmates.For my son and for myself, I literally don't hang out or talk to anybody because of the people that I used to associate with were not good for me.Over the years or they just used me and abused me because i'm a very kind hundred person.But i'm definitely looking for a friend.I really need a friend.My mother is my go to and i'm so over telling her everything under the sun.You know, if anybody wants to be my friend and maybe go to lunch or dinner, have the kids hang out.Meet whatever I mean, I like to do a lot of stuff, but definitely, I just need positive people in my life and I'm so tired of being alone. So I didn't allow my son, but I need a girlfriend.I need girls to go, hang out with.I don't have one friend that I can call and say hey, you wanna go out to brunch?This morning, I don't.I thought I had this one friend, but I come to find out she just was using me and again, i'm a really kind harder person, but i'm definitely looking for friends.But anybody wants to pm me, that'd be great

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