‘This is why you shouldn’t have kids unless you are married’
Someone said this to me on a video I commented on tik tok, however I was with my ex HUSBAND 10 years married 3 and a half before we had babies. A piece of paper makes no difference.
Maybe the signs were always there but I feel he definitely changed after I got pregnant with our eldest…
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Just because he is a good person doesn’t mean he will make a good husband and that doesn’t mean he will make a good dad

"he has teeth and is too old to nurse, pump and give a cup" mind you they are talking about a 8-10 month old

Yes, that is so rude. I was pregnant with my second and we weren't together and my was "that's what you get for having kids." And that's a sad example as to why I couldn't answer the "do you have a support system?" at the doctor's office-- definitely an awkward silence occurred.