Why's it so harrrd.

Its so hard to make consistent friendships on here lol. Anyone wanna be my friend ? I might annoy a lil bit though..

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I think for a lot just feel like they may be judge or unlikeable but really desire a friend

Good morning! I just joined and even though yes life happens and keeps me busy I'm looking to make friends.

Lol I said the same thing 😅 yesterday to myself like it takes a forever to reply or just ghosting. I almost felt like I was trying talk to my not so type of guys lol. We are all moms , work busy and kids but why in here then just saying.

Its hard to make friends because people aren't intentional and dont realize making friends is like dating, its like would you want to date a guy who never responds , never speaks to you, you are the only one initiating conversation, you never plan anything together?? They claim they want friendships but no one puts in the work yet you see so many post saying they are looking for friendships but are they really?? Yes we all have busy lives as mom but if you really want something i believe you will make it happen.

Meee! SAHM of 3 soon to be 4. I'd love a friend to annoy me as long as I can annoy back 😂

Sorry girlie I been busy ill text you on Monday

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Comments that irritate

‘This is why you shouldn’t have kids unless you are married’

Someone said this to me on a video I commented on tik tok, however I was with my ex HUSBAND 10 years married 3 and a half before we had babies. A piece of paper makes no difference.

Maybe the signs were always there but I feel he definitely changed after I got pregnant with our eldest…

Condom broke

I’m 5 months pp and the condom just completely broke and I can’t even use plan B cuz I still weigh too much 😭. Just need reassurance. Did u get pregnant again quick? I was pumping the first 3 months and got my period like right at 7 weeks but it’s been extremely irregular like I got my period twice in a month. Now I’m breastfeeding and pump once a day. I’m hoping the breastfeeding is stalling my ovulation but idk man. I’m gonna get ovulation strips in the morning. I really can’t have another baby rn ugh.

Annoyed

Last night my boyfriend was actually horny for once we was kissing and I was wanking him off then he cum and that was it no sex so it did nothing for me when he knows I’m not happy about the lack of sex it’s now been 12 days . I then thought we would go on to have sex a little bit later but he just went to sleep? Is this weird ? I’m thinking it’s lazy and selfish .

Soooo I'm pregnant again

I'm pregnant with my second baby, around 10 weeks now and my daughter it's only 18 months 🫪 it was not planned but that doesn't mean it's not loved, the issue comes because me and my baby daddy have been going through a really hard time in our relationship and to be honest we were separated for 3 months last year and decided to try again and this past month and the beginning of may were pretty rough we almost decided to separated for good this time, argument were getting a little too heated and I was done to be completely honest I wanted out.
My family and friends already don't love the idea of me staying because they don't like him because of the last time we separated he was pretty mean and petty and just not being a good father or a good man in general so now I have to go and spend a weekend with family and hide a pregnancy that they would be so disappointed and probably not happy about and still I don't know when I would be able to tell them because of all of this I'm just scared and I can already heard all the things they want to say or will say and I just don't want it. I'm scared and It doesn't even feel real to me because of everything that happened
My baby daddy and I talked and we came to the conclusion that we want to keep trying to be better and make it work for us and our family, but I also don't believe it 100% and I have people telling me things about him and I just hate it all I hate being in this situation he won't even be able to stay with me over the weekend with my family for the same reason and I'm just so done with all of this I'm tired I don't know what to do or say or even think at this point 😭😭😭😭
I'm sorry it's so long and I'm just venting because I can't talk like this or about this with anyone around me. 🙃

Am 38 & still looking for a friend

I really just want someone to chill with like damn
I really think women are looking for looks lol 😂 at this point ..like I don’t want to fuck you I want to be just friends!
Am just over it , it’s just gonna be me and my lil family at this point