People keep saying my baby is too attached...

There is no such thing as too attached, I get told the same things constantly! Honestly babies see you as comforting and they can tell intentions of people around you like dogs can too which is probably why she cries with other people because they aren’t calm or comforting like you or your husband. Honestly ignore them and never let your mum babysit that’s for sure. You know what’s right for your baby and if they disagree with your parenting then they don’t have to be around you because it’s your child! I’d just tell them to eff off because you care about your child to not abandon them just for a cigarette or because you think they somehow know what manipulation means at 8 months old. They can’t regulate properly and need guidance and like normal people they need help and as parents it’s your job to help guide them and love them and you can never spoil a baby with love, funny enough research shows that babies that were held more became more healthy and independent adults so don’t worry

Sounds completely healthy and normal. I cosleep with my 5 month old as she won't sleep otherwise and she especially loves me and her dad as we spend so much time with her naturally. I can't think of anything worse than the crying out method or leaving her to her own devices. She is still so young and needs her mamma x

Not yet a mum as we're still waiting, but if it was the other way around, then also someone will have an issue for something that isnt their concern. If you're okay with the bond you have and considering you are the home she knows best so far; what's the problem? Adults get stuck in their ways after decades in jobs and whatnot, your baby knows no other way: it's a baby.

I also think people forget whats its like in the early days 30+ years later and every baby is different and has different needs/wants

Because babies can’t speak they cry for communication, their cries don’t all sound the same. Every time my baby cried I was straight up to give her what she needed.

Enjoy every moment of your baby cuddling you and wanting you for everything, one day they’ll probably stop when they are older.

Honey you don’t need to over think it. It’s your baby and you do what feels right for them. Babies will grow up eventually and wouldn’t want to be held or be with you, so enjoy every moment with them.

My baby is 3 months old now and my mom kept saying don’t pick her up if she cries for “no reason” since day one. Saying she will get used to it.

But I didn’t and would never listen to that, holding my baby makes me feel whole again, she spent 9 months in me so she is part of me.

You do your research and see what works for you and your baby. ❤️

Xx

I remember when I was talking to my sister about my baby boy being so completely attached to me, only wanting me and no one else. She replied “that’s because you’re doing everything right”. That completely changed my perspective and gave me so much peace. You’re doing it right mama, keep it up 💗

Thanks for all the replies! This has really given me a new surge of strength to keep telling people I will parent the way I choose because I love my daughter ❤️

I have the same comment from people, especially with him having to go to nursery when I go back to work. People saying he's going to struggle.
I wish I didn't have to go, but I do. And I think it will be good for him too.
He's had 3:l settling sessions so far and is improving with each one.
Attachment is not a bad thing in my eyes, it shows a healthy bond and you're their safe place