Hi I had a really hardcore traumatic birth on Wednesday evening which resulted in emergency c section after nearly 24 in labour and an infection, since leaving surgery I am staying in for a few days but my baby has decided she will only cluster feed each night and morning then contact nap obviously during this I don’t sleep because safe sleeping but this is killing me I am already so exhausted from the surgery my partner has tried helping but he’s also absolutely drained
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Can you take naps with her on you and your partner stays awake to keep a watch, if you’re worried? That’s what I had to do because I had a family of snorers next to me and didn’t sleep a wink that first night!

Once you’re home, you’ll be able to adapt to your own routine since you’ll be in your own environment. Being in the hospital is absolutely chaos especially being around other families. Hopefully you’ll be able to get the sleep you need and slowly settle into a routine x