Feeling confused

Are you establishing familiarity before suggesting to meet up? Or do you want to meet in person first before getting to know them a bit?

That makes sense It just never occurred to me that people found it off putting I think it’s just because I’m the opposite of someone I didn’t know asked me to hang I would be delighted to go and I think it’s truly the only way to establish a bond is face to face interaction, I also have no luck online. When I do try to reach out and get to know someone I’m alway ignored and I guess I’m just getting really tired depressed and desperate

Sometimes people such as myself don't have the money to hangout with other moms, unlessis somewhere free like a park. So the bests we can do to feel good is chat, we all have diffrent ways of socializing. Nothing wrong in how anyone does it, Just my opinion. 😊

Personally, I won’t hang out with someone unless I’ve been talking to them for awhile & feel comfortable & I’m definitely not bringing my baby around someone I’ve never met in person or even had a conversation with. I talk to quite a few moms on here & I finally felt comfortable enough to ask 1 of the moms to hang out after getting to know her for a month or so. I wouldn’t go so far as to block someone if they asked to hang out but instead explain I’m not comfortable with that since I don’t know them yet.

I totally understand what you mean. With better weather I always think somewhere free (like a park) is a good place for a first couple of times. To be sure everyone vibes 😊

I appreciate everyone sharing their perspectives. I guess I have to realize not everyone has absolutely no one in there life and is as desperate as me. I don’t have transportation or any friends or family in my areas so getting out to the park or library isn’t really possible unless it’s on weekends and it’s always a ghost town on weekends. It’s gotten to the point where my daughter really wants friends too and literally comes to me with a candle to she can make a wish for friend and it literally makes me cry. I guess there are some women out there who are truly alone and stuck and have no one to call on and you get to the point where you don’t know what else to do besides beg

Are there any local events you can go to? Support groups for moms in your area? Maybe you would have better luck meeting someone in person & connecting that way. I saw on here that some moms go to local events at the library to help socialize.

Well hun if u need chats im a jobless mom who is always busy go figure. 🤔 lol But here when ever i will answer u, just don'tbe weird..🤣 Joking love to laugh. Have a great day! 🫶😁