I need help man… I have a 3 year and a 3 month old. My toddler has been whining, crying, screaming, yelling, not sharing with other kids, not eating and he will literally starve, he attacks his cousin or a friend of his that I watch because they touch his toys when he’s playing with another. Always fighting with the other kids. Talking back, saying no to when I tell him to do things. Sighs. I hate to say it but he’s HORRIBLE. As soon as the day starts he’s already on something . I’m tired of it. I’m tired of yelling at him. I’m tired of always getting angry. And what sucks YES SUCKS. Is that I’m doing gentle parenting, he’s sooo close to seeing how my ancestors did things because I’m so fed up. Does he need therapy? Is there something wrong with him?
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There is definitely something wrong with him. Do not listen to these other comments. I'm actually dealing with the same situation, he turned 3 last week and has a 23 month old sister and we have a newborn coming this week too. Anyways, my family has a documented VAERS case (v@x injury) and my son had an adverse reaction at 4 months old and had a total regression and no progress with any skills at all for two years, but he was not diagnosed with autism or ADHD. My son can be agressive and never listens. This is not normal toddler behavior to NEVER listen and have meltdowns that last 30-60+ minutes and constant whining. On the other hand, our daughter has never disobeyed ever I'm not even joking she is also extremely advanced and is globally advanced/has synchronous advanced development which is very rare. My son had GDD which is the opposite a total global delay. We cut sugars from his diet, sans fruit, don't use toxic chemicals or products, I make everything from home and use organic

I agree with the unhealthy chidrwn bit and food, sleep and environment has a lot to do with behavior. I find if my tone is off or im anticipating a shitty day qith shitty attitude then its worse but if i go nope thats not happing then we usually do fine he will whine and ill ask y then i will say something like just ask 🤷♀️ or nope we arwnt doing that today snd we will go play.
When i brought my now 10m old home it was a few months before he got the hang of it and it took alot of patience, no screens, lots of one on one time, outside time, and good meals no more snacks.
I found he was feeling left out and replaced and wasnt eating adequately with alot of screen time (was with gma for 2 weeks)

My son’s been this way since about 2.5 years old. He’s about to be 3 in August. I’m also due next week💀