how to deal with childless bsf giving unsolicited advice
I'm not confrontational nor conflictive at all, I hate to put boundaries as well. If it is for my baby is easy, but for me isn't.
My bsf is in a total different stage of life, and I don't know if it's bc I'm a young mom (we are both 22), but she's always giving me tips and advice of how to take care of my baby. She babysitted a 6mo ONCE and she thinks she knows more than me. I know she probably doesn't have bad intentions, and just want to help, but I'm so done with it.
Yesterday she said I need more time out with girlfriends, and that I should leave my baby (6 months) with his dad and go out for a drink. Again, I know she had good intentions, but 1. I get awfully anxious when I've been apart from my baby. 2. he co-sleeps with me, and will only fall asleep with my boob. 3. I think she's right about seeing my friends more, and getting out, but I'd love to be able to do so with my baby. He's so calm and social, and am of my friend love him and like to spend time with us, no one had asked me to leave him at home.
What should I do????