Am I a bad mom for this?

Lately, my sex life with my partner is the best its ever been. I’ve been begging him for more, and honestly I kinda feel like a dog in heat. I’m craving it all day, its all I can think about, I just want him deep inside me at all times. He thinks its kinda funny that I’m like this all of a sudden but its driving me crazy! We’ve had some very primal sex recently and I think its unleashed something in me. But the part that I’m questioning, is being naughty while the kids are awake/around. For example, I’m walking around with a butt plug in and its just normal lunch time for us. Is this wrong to do? Should I only do it after theyre in bed? Does it make me a bad mom? On any normal day the kids probably see their dad grabbing/groping me in some form(hes a very handsy affectionate- loves ass/boob grabs on me) but they havent seen more than that. Part of me feels guilty but part of me wants to embrace the fact I finally feel good/confident sexually.

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You’re human! You’re allowed to have desires especially sexual ones with your partners. It’s not like you’re wearing the buttplug and getting off by looking at your children!! Plus waiting til kids are sleep is usually when I want to sleep lol. Enjoy your libido girl

the main thing i think is their exposure. they need to not be exposed to things that aren't developmentally appropriate, and that includes sex. if they aren't being exposed to it (i don't think seeing him grab you counts) then i don't see the problem with it?

Damn ,the butt plug 😂,I don’t even know what to say!Have fun mama .
I have a high libido too so you don’t seem crazy to me at all .my husband grabs my a$$ all the time,we sneak around like high schoolers 🤣

I envy your libido haha. It's been 4 years since I've been that horny 😂
As long as your kids aren't witnessing you having sex, it should be fine. If you were walking around butt naked with a butt plug in, that wouldn't be good 😅 but we sometimes sneak away while the kids are awake and then just come back. I just try to stay quiet and they're none the wiser.

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