Struggling

I’m now understanding why it’s so easy for couples to break up during pregnancy or even after , the mean can really treat you like shit because they can’t handle it. I’m about to be temporarily sleeping in the streets of SD (in my car) with twins inside me because it’s just been so bad after i got pregnant our relationship just got worse 😔 i’m not sure how to deal with it all, i feel played and alone it’s worse because i don’t know anyone else out here smh.

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Does your baby wake up

I have a 4 month old when he is sleeping dad and I will start having sex. Since the baby was born he will wake up almost every time. He’s usually a hard sleeper.
Is this normal? If this happens to you is your baby a boy or girl?

4 month old baby

Girls😭😭 I’m struggling so bad right now. My baby girl was the perfect newborn, but over the last few days it’s as if a demon has possessed her. She will cry 90% of the day, won’t have naps, doesn’t want put down at all, isn’t really interested in feeding and will NOT sleep long stretches at night.
I’m smelly, tired, hungry and loosing my mind.

I think I just wanted a vent, thank u for reading

Caught Husband Watching Girls Videos

Long story Short , am I Wrong for being upset at my husband for watching provocative lustful videos of girls half naked dancing and grinding on FB Reels AFTER he swore up and down he ignored those kind of videos. Not to mention I clearly stated and thought in that moment we both understood that I am not ok with him watching those kind of videos because 1.) they make me insecure asf since CLEARLY I do not have their bodies hello I’ve had 2 of his children and am currently 4 months Pp Breastfeeding mom
And 2.) he’s watching and enjoying another woman’s body Ass boobs etc and pleasuring his mind which makes me feel not good enough not beautiful enough for my own husband. And 3.) ITS NOT THAT HARD TO SWIPE PAST THEM. It’s a CHOICE to sit there and go down a rabbit hole of video after video after video and all the same person just in different lingerie whatever. My mind is messed up now and I don’t want him to see me naked anymore or even feel like having sex anymore because I just don’t look like those girls and I’m the complete opposite of them my body is still recovering from giving birth I’m trynna find my spark back and this just made me feel even worse now. Yes he apologized and kept saying he doesn’t want them and Bs Bs but now I don’t believe anything he says… cause I did at first and look what tf was the truth.

So the tea😐

So recently I confronted to my husband I don’t want another baby..

The reason that is is the turama I went through with my first born son- and also the fact in my first year being mum no one was really there for me mentally and suffered on my own.

However my husband is adment on having another baby and keeps asking my son if he wants brother or sister.

Tbh when I had this conversation with him he wasn’t really supportive and says I will have to forget about my truma with my birth.

I had a forsap and had blood loss and had to be operated for 2hr to be stitched back up and stayed for another 2 days… when I had to pee the nurses laughed at me and was hurting me with the caperater.

Plus the way he is with me isn’t right he swears- don’t help me in the house unless it’s garage or just swears at me even at smallest things.

Unfortunately my son sees that I don’t want to put another child through this.

Plus I’m happy atm with me but if he don’t want to support this decision then I’m going to take my son to my mum’s with me for break in the relationship

Rolling in sleep

My 6 month baby has just learnt how to role. He cannot role back onto his back yet though and always needs helps. He’s started sleeping on his tummy but wakes up upset when he can’t get back onto his back. So I’m having to go in and put him back onto his back. This is waking him up at night and I’m having to settle him back to sleep when it happens. Is this something I just have to wait out until he finally figures out how to do it himself? Any tips?

Sleep when the baby sleeps

What a load of bullshit haha

Im 5 days PP and recovering so well from episiotomy and severe dehydration during labour and delivery.

HOWEVER my baby doesnt sleep in a moses basket, pram bassinet, next to me or anything- only when on me or my husband. Im EBF right now and can cope when my husband is on shift but im doing 12/2am - 7am ish and I'm so scared of falling asleep. I just dont know what to do and need some advice or solidarity. I have been putting him in the pram bassinet but he cries after about 5 mins of being in there while I close my eyes on the sofa