Baby monitors

My son will be turning 4 next month and I have no idea when to stop using the monitor in his room, just wondering when everyone else stopped using them? I like the fact when I wake up I can check to make sure he’s all good without getting out of bed but I know there will be a time when I’ll obviously have to stop 🤣 so what age did you stop?

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Caught Husband Watching Girls Videos

Long story Short , am I Wrong for being upset at my husband for watching provocative lustful videos of girls half naked dancing and grinding on FB Reels AFTER he swore up and down he ignored those kind of videos. Not to mention I clearly stated and thought in that moment we both understood that I am not ok with him watching those kind of videos because 1.) they make me insecure asf since CLEARLY I do not have their bodies hello I’ve had 2 of his children and am currently 4 months Pp Breastfeeding mom
And 2.) he’s watching and enjoying another woman’s body Ass boobs etc and pleasuring his mind which makes me feel not good enough not beautiful enough for my own husband. And 3.) ITS NOT THAT HARD TO SWIPE PAST THEM. It’s a CHOICE to sit there and go down a rabbit hole of video after video after video and all the same person just in different lingerie whatever. My mind is messed up now and I don’t want him to see me naked anymore or even feel like having sex anymore because I just don’t look like those girls and I’m the complete opposite of them my body is still recovering from giving birth I’m trynna find my spark back and this just made me feel even worse now. Yes he apologized and kept saying he doesn’t want them and Bs Bs but now I don’t believe anything he says… cause I did at first and look what tf was the truth.

Nights are brutal

Anyone else feel dread the moment it starts to get dark out? Waking up every 2 to 3 hours to feed and pump is so hard. But to top it off, it feels so lonely. Trying to be quiet so no one (even the baby) wakes up. Struggling with how tired you feel and how much you wish you could just hit snooze on it all and fall asleep. It’s a type of mental pain. Or is it just me? 😞

Struggling

I’m now understanding why it’s so easy for couples to break up during pregnancy or even after , the mean can really treat you like shit because they can’t handle it. I’m about to be temporarily sleeping in the streets of SD (in my car) with twins inside me because it’s just been so bad after i got pregnant our relationship just got worse 😔 i’m not sure how to deal with it all, i feel played and alone it’s worse because i don’t know anyone else out here smh.

Sleep when the baby sleeps

What a load of bullshit haha

Im 5 days PP and recovering so well from episiotomy and severe dehydration during labour and delivery.

HOWEVER my baby doesnt sleep in a moses basket, pram bassinet, next to me or anything- only when on me or my husband. Im EBF right now and can cope when my husband is on shift but im doing 12/2am - 7am ish and I'm so scared of falling asleep. I just dont know what to do and need some advice or solidarity. I have been putting him in the pram bassinet but he cries after about 5 mins of being in there while I close my eyes on the sofa

Sleeping in cot

Hi all! Does anyone have any recommendations on how to encourage baby to sleep in their cot? My baby is only three days old but does not settle in his cot at night. During the day he seems to be able to sleep anywhere but the night is different as he only settles on me. I don’t know if I just have to be persistent and sit through his cries but that feels cruel to do so. Thank you in advance!

Rolling in sleep

My 6 month baby has just learnt how to role. He cannot role back onto his back yet though and always needs helps. He’s started sleeping on his tummy but wakes up upset when he can’t get back onto his back. So I’m having to go in and put him back onto his back. This is waking him up at night and I’m having to settle him back to sleep when it happens. Is this something I just have to wait out until he finally figures out how to do it himself? Any tips?