Do you know what a SAHDM is?

Just saw a video using this term, it had over 100k likes and hundreds of comments from women saying that they're SAHDMs.

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It means "Stay-at-home Dog Mom"

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Ahaha

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Actually really love this for them.

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Looking for friends to text, snap, call, or facetime

Its really hard to find friends in my area so I am looking for online friends that truly want to be friends. Who want to hang out from the comfort of our own homes but FaceTime with me while I clean my house, cook dinner or sit on my porch+

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Dont know what to do. SAHM wanting to leave husband

Wanting to leave husband and take my kids with me across state lines to live with family. Have never really had a job. Every time I tried to get one he would quit talking to me until I left the job. Always told me he was the provider and I was a stay at home mom. But now its getting bad between us. He gets jealous of our kids getting to spend time with me, he has mood swings like no other. He is very back and forth on everything making it unstable for the kids. There is so much more, but I feel stuck because of having no job or way to support my kids. Let alone a lawyer that costs $6,000. Any advice or suggestions hoping would be helpful.

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Bruh

I’m 25 I wanna fuck all the time and my bf 30. Doesn’t have the stamina for it….. but he refuses to buy me any sort of sex toys mind yall im a sahm with zero money to my name
I’m so irritated…any advice

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Don’t have sex unless he’s prepared to be a dad

Might be an unpopular opinion, but I think women shouldn’t sleep with a guy unless you’ve discussed how they feel about becoming a dad. Doesn’t have to be “what would you do if I got pregnant?” just a basic conversation to gauge if they are even interested in having kids or not.

Because if they say it’s a firm no, and you get pregnant, be prepared for the possibility that he will not man up and be there for you or your child. We’ve seen and heard about this exact scenario too many times sadly.

Now I’m not shaming any women who have found themselves in this position. It’s not their fault, it’s the deadbeat guy’s fault if he leaves after getting a woman pregnant. But we as women can at least going forward set a higher standard for who we choose to sleep with and not waste time with someone who tells us upfront they want nothing to do with becoming a dad.

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Humble brag

What’s your humble brag? Something that you don’t sing about often, but people sometimes notice about you and then you are like… damn. I did that !

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Hey!

Looking for some friends who are yappers like me ! I’m a 27 year old stay at home mom to a 6 month old baby girl 🩷

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