Sex?

Can everyone be honest and say how much they have sex with their partner….. 8/9 months post baby?

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For me and my hubby personally we have sex around 1 to 3 times a day now but when I was freshly pp it was maybe 1 to 3 times a week if that especially by baby #3 and im sure it won’t be any different with baby #4 especially because all my kiddos are close in age I’ll have 4 5 yo and under

3 times at that stage and found out I fell pregnant the literal week baby started trying food

Like 3 times in 8 months 🤣

2-3* a week. He would prefer it every day. Compromises w me and we have it every other day, or 3rd day max. That was actually a huge drop from pregnancy, my hormones were raging at 1-2* a day.

Once every 2 weeks to once a month, I just don’t have the energy or the time with two small children and a house to run.

Once or twice a week usually.

Haven’t had any in a year almost 2 ugh even tho I want it so bad lol

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Also just to clarify the first answer option. I mean if they can fully wash theirselves (hair and body) and get in and out of the bath on their own.

3 year olds bedtime drama

My sons been making bed time really difficult lately, he goes to bed 7-7:30pm - he will moan and cry about going to bed and not wanting to…his routines the same nothings changed - it’ll be dinner, wined down, get ready for bed(pjs), brush teeth, 2 books and then off to bed we go.

Lately he’s fighting to go bed and moaning/yelling he doesn’t want to

Any extra things/tips I could add to aid his bed time routine ?

Thank!