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So much pain

Any advice I Will take it!!

The last couple of days my pain has gone from a 2 to a 8 where I've got tears in my eyes.
Feels like the baby is either pushing in the pelvic bone or digging into to ribs.
Ive taken paracetamols and tried heat on my hooch.
Can't rest because I have a 3 year old.
Im debating phoning triage and my community midwife isn't very good.
Advice please

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Awww I’m in the same position I don’t know what’s going on Braxton hicks but super strong all night . Baby pushing down .

I’m 36 weeks

You can definitely contact triage, they’ll actually help you. I had AWFUL pain around 30 weeks and they prescribed me with strong pain killers

From my experience they tell you to just get on with it. I’ve been in none stop pain since I was 13 weeks but the past few weeks the pain has generally been unbearable. I cannot function anymore , luckily my husbands of work for this last stretch so he can look after our son.. im honestly spending most of the time in bed or sleeping to pass time because i just cannot function.
Nice long hot baths did help me but now it’s more painful to get in/out it’s just not worth it but may work for you.

Baths can be really helpful for the pain! Although finding time for that with a 3 year old is near impossible. I know, I have one too 😩

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So much pain

Any advice I Will take it!!

The last couple of days my pain has gone from a 2 to a 8 where I've got tears in my eyes.
Feels like the baby is either pushing in the pelvic bone or digging into to ribs.
Ive taken paracetamols and tried heat on my hooch.
Can't rest because I have a 3 year old.
Im debating phoning triage and my community midwife isn't very good.
Advice please

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