Having a hard time.

Im really struggling right now with my partner.
Im 3 months PP with a planned baby.
My partner and i are constantly falling out. He says he is not expecting me to do everything but is literally expecting me to do everything. Keeps telling me i am not doing enough and that he is working so i should be doing the housework. Ive been really trying lately as baby is getting easier to put down but he does not see me at all. Find myself walking on eggshells and afraid of doing anything for myself. Ive tried talking to him on so many levels but each week it gets worse. I am also breastfeeding and up all hours of the night.

Feeling really stuck and unhappy at the moment. Im only on SMP and have no one who can watch the baby for me when i do go back to work so will be paying for nursery. I earn £16 per hour and worked 35 hours before the baby.

How do i get out of this situation if we cant make things work? I dont want my mental health to continue to decline because of the way he is treating me.
Our rent is £900 per month for reference so there is no way i could afford to be on my own.

in our community

I need a new husband lol

My husband rarely makes breakfast for me. And I was hoping this bank holiday weekend as he's off he would make the effort but when I asked him just now when he would make breakfast for me he said when he has the energy. He is always tired as he suffers from insomnia but ever since our son was born 7 months ago he has energy for our son. I feel very hurt by this statement as I've interpreted it as I am not important enough. I'm now getting up and go make breakfast for us as we get ready for the day

Heatwave hell 😭

I am really struggling in this heat. I’m melting. My 6 week old won’t sleep off me, won’t sleep on me, will fall asleep in a carrier but then I’m sweating and he’s uncomfortably hot. My toddler is misbehaving and is rejecting me. He is struggling without my attention. My littlest wants no one but me. The house is a shit hole cos nothing is getting done with the mayhem going on. I am not having a good time. Anyone else’s April baby struggling??

Oh we’ve also got illness galore. I have nipple thrush, bubs has oral thrush, I have a cold and I think my first period has arrived despite breastfeeding (didn’t with my first). My eldest has ringworm, a cold and cough, skin infection in his nose and conjunctivitis. He’s been back to back unwell for the last 5-6 weeks. Honestly it’s been never ending

Heatwave activities

My baby is almost 4 months old, and I naively thought I could take him out early in the morning for a quick stroll, but it was already 27° at 9 am. We played in the sink for a bit and then the usual tummy time, books, gym, and looking outside. I have a small patio that is shaded, but it feels too hot. I took him out for an early walk yesterday at around 9 am, and he was quite warm in the pram.
My husband will be back to work tomorrow.

What are people doing to keep babies entertained?

Potty Training: I feel so defeated and disappointed

Day 3 of potty training with zero successful potty deposits. He doesn’t mind sitting on the potty but then gets up and pees on the floor.
The perfectionist and a control freak in me just dies inside every time he pees on the floor.
I cry every night after I put him to sleep.
We tried potty training at 18m and we had 1-3 deposits a day. So I am not sure why the regression

Solids

My 8 month old struggles to eat solids if it is not purified. He coughs a lot if I give him soft foods like egg. Anyone else struggling with this?

Upset

My husband has a different culture than me. In their culture they play match maker for their close friends and family. Today my husband talked to some girl at the store, got her number, and started trying to talk to her for his brother. I told him how disrespectful it is to me that he's being friendly with girls enough to get their numbers before he even told her it was for his brother. He doesn't think it's disrespectful and that it's not a big deal. I told his brother to find his own women. And now im the bad guy.