Im so aggravated, I could explode.
Im sick of this revolving door between me and my household. I have an 18 year old an 11 year old & an 6 year and a man. So why in the hell is my house always a mess and everybody in here is capable of cleaning up behind themselves. From the time I get up. Im washing dishing, sweeping the floor, washing clothes, folding and putting away clothes, while the ungrateful ppl sit on their butts and do nothing. Im perfectly capable of doing all the cleaning and stuff for the house on my own. If they would clean up when they make messes. I speak to this man about this and all he says is, oh its not that bad, we will get to. If i sit and wait on him and kids my house will never get clean. All im want to a decent house. Its no reason why its clothes toys and food every where. They make me feel crazy because I start screaming and yelling but ive been asking nicely all day. I need a break 😫
How to be a supportive wife?
My husband is drinking today and we both know it's going to be a bad night. The bottle is almost gone and he's listening to country music which makes him think of his kids, both passed away and still alive. I've never lost a kid so don't get me wrong I'm not being cold-hearted I understand his feelings about that, however when it comes to the kids that he still has living he is not present in their lives or his grandkid's lives. I encourage him to see them but when I do he makes up excuses about money but I try to remind him that his presence is more important than presents. In order for things to change or for your kids to accept you more you do have to show up. You can't sit around drunk with your should haves, could haves, and would haves. You have to make the change now. It's as easy as picking up the phone or even as I tried to suggest taking a road trip to go see them. I haven't been the perfect parent myself, but I'm still in my kids' lives and I speak to them often and let them know that I care and love them. I'm 5 months pregnant and it would be nice if he tried to break the cycle now before babygirl got here, but I don't see that happening. I'm tired of the bottle and these drunken nights. I want to be supportive, but I can only support you if you're actually trying. He's not. He spends more time looking for women on dating apps, trying to have "fun", being angry and putting me down than he does doing positive things that can change his circumstances. Idk like I said I'm here, I'm trying to be supportive but he makes it hard.
Horrible Night 🇬🇧
maybe worst night ever. i live with my baby daddy and our 8month twins, he can be the sweetest person most of the time but every time i go out he drinks and gets drunk…even if i’m just going to gym or for lunch, nothing crazy ever! today had a family wedding and he got drunk there, he went home early then when i came home he wouldnt let me in the door at first, kept opening and slamming. then i put my foot when he opened and tried to put my hand and he slammed the door on my hand. inside he kept coming up close to me and shouting at me, i sat on the bed and he pushed me off. he came and grabbed my arms pushing me into walls all over our flat, and hitting my face with a plushie. then he finally went to bed. i called the police and they came and arrested him. i feel so scared, i hv no one who can come round. i feel so sad too that it’s come to this and scared he will be so angry with me now. whatever we had will be over now i feel as there can be no going back from this. i also feel sorry for him too. i just feel lost as well, never been totally alone all night with the babies 😔😔😔😔😔😔
