Just venting

I’m have a 6 week old and I simultaneously love and hate raising her at the same time. I love her so much, but also hate some of the changes to my life. I miss alone time with my husband, consistent sleep, me time.

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It’s such a life change. I’m missing time with my partner too. Our relationship has totally changed and it’s ok to mourn that x

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Effects of heat - is this normal?

It's 30 degrees where I am. My 8 month old is in just a nappy, there's a fan on (not pounting at my daughter), and the door is open. She woke up at 4 am and ended up sleeping in our room as it's cooler until 06 30.

She's extra tired and cuddly (has already slept 2.5hrs today and she's asleep on me again) - is this normal in this kind of heat?

She's eating normally and no concern about wet nappies (I think her top teeth are about to cut though)

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My baby is 10 weeks old and me and my fiancé are struggling, he’s constantly blaming me for things, saying I don’t give him much love and he feels worthless, I feel emotionally worn down and unlike myself, I’m being referred for postpartum depression/anxiety, he dismiss’ my mental health even though he struggles with both, he has adhd and can get very angry and swearing around the baby, we had a huge argument where I left in the middle of night to go to my mums because he was also slamming doors, I think he’s been trying to meet other women, he says as friends but it just seems to be regularly, he doesn’t take much accountability, I’m scared of losing my baby (shared) and myself.

Any other single mums have any advice on their experiences and how they cope being a single mum and if anyone’s left their partner when their baby is young. We are also due to get married next year. I just don’t want to leave but also don’t want my son growing up in an unhealthy environment.

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Yoto or toniebox?

Hi ladies I have a 13 month old and lately I’m feeling guilty that he is having a bit too much screen time! I find myself having to put it on when I need to get stuff done/ get ready for work/ or just have 5 minutes! At first he would still play and it would be just on in the background but now when it’s on he’s just glued to the screen! I have to also put it on whenever I change his nappy because soon as I lie him Down he just rolls over which makes nappy changing rather difficult ! Someone mentioned a toniebox so had a look and I’ve seen some good reviews, but I’ve also seen people mention a yoto box! Just wondered what people’s thoughts were ? Thanks x

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10m postpartum (c section). EBF. Period has not returned yet.

Only tried a handful of times but so painful and uncomfortable and can’t have sex. Anyone else? What to do?

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Hi, my baby is 6weeks old and struggling to sleep and more crying as usual. Does anyone have same experience?? If so what is the reason???

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