Latching when breastfeeding

Hi girls, I am a first time mum to my 2 week old and I’m trying my hardest to exclusively breastfeed but she doesn’t latch properly all the time. I know she can get a good latch as we have achieved it previously however most times she will not latch and it will hurt me. My other issue is that she will not latch with a bottle either when I offer one! Any advice or tips to help with latching would be so appreciated xxx

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Can you access some feeding support from a local group? Or breastfeeding clinic? Having someone watch a feed and give tips would be the best

I so so recommend going to one of your local feeding support groups or clinics. I really struggled at the start and local groups were a huge help to get things working more consistently for baby and avoid pain for me! Good luck mama and congrats too ❤️

I had the same issue with my son , he's 9 days old now. I noticed he couldn't latch properly when my breast went hard (during my 2 hrs sleep )
I am trying to feed as often as I can specifically with hot weather so my breast won't get hard and painful.
I have used cabbage leaves from the fridge in my bra in-between feeds .
I hope things get better.
Please ask for professional advice as I am only a mum and not professional just sharing what worked for me xx

Reach out for support and remember you and your baby are learning it’s all new to you both

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