Am I over reacting ?
Me and my BD are not in a good space at all. We clash and disagree on everything.
He goes out every weekend till 6am and we have 2 children under 2 the following day he to exhausted to even entertain his children who want to play.
I have been in hospital with my oldest I messaged the BD to let him know he was extremly funny with me. He then did not answer any of my calls. I sent him messages to keep him updated with what was happening. He never responded to anything. Eventually 6hrs later we was let home only to find him not return to the house and still not communicate with me at all to shecknon his child.
To me this is not a man who priorities his children this is not man showing he cares.
I’m fuming with him as I would push aside all my issue if my child was poorly in hospital and prioritise her and I expect the same from her dad.
What should I do ?
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Leave him. He’s obviously doing something he shouldn’t be doing. And he doesn’t respect you or your children with the way he is acting. I would not want that role model for my babies.
In my opinion, this is not a man you want to be with everyday if he doesn’t put his family first. Take control and set strict boundaries. If you haven’t already, talk to him and let him know this is what you need from him and if he doesn’t want to at least try to change or make an effort to change then I’m sorry yall do not need to be together at the moment. You’re being a a great mom and he’s not even putting in the effort for his sick child. The red flags are there. Coming in at a insane hour 🚩ignoring your calls and texts 🚩 not prioritizing the life he helped create 🚩now if there’s another issue there he should be able to communicate it with you but he’s not even doing that babes
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