This is hardddddd

I knew being a mum wouldn’t be easy but I naively didn’t expect it to be this hard 😩 my 5 month old needs constant entertainment, I can’t even step out of the room to grab a drink without her crying.

Just wondering if anyone else is finding this as difficult as I am? I can’t say I’m particularly enjoying it and that makes me feel awful ☹️ I love her to pieces but wow I’ve never worked so hard and still felt like I was failing 😩

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My 5 month old is like this too ever since he was born. At least I can say I get a good nights sleep after the fact 😮‍💨

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You’re not alone and there’s no reason to feel guilty about it! Pregnant with my second and dreading some of the baby phases! I want to start working much earlier with my second because I really didn’t enjoy the never ending-ness of staying at home with a baby. Now with a toddler it’s so much more fun!
What helped me was baby wearing and just trying to do things for me with my baby, exercise, seeing people, reading while next to my baby, doing chores with my child while they were awake to get proper me time during naps. And not sleeping when the baby sleeps so I get some me-time/ respite from being the primary care giver during the daytime as well!

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I can sympathise … I have my boy wrapped around me or in his bouncer in the same room at all times. My older one was also a Velcro baby. And it IS hard! But it does get better. Hang in there 🙌

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My son is 4 months old, and he is constantly on my arms,and rarely get a minute for myself, and if I do,I am feeling dizzy. I normally do everything when he goes to bed. The longest stretch is 5 hours from 7 pm. I make sure the house is tidy,meals prepared for the day, and at least I don't have anything to worry about. I do laundry once a week. During the day, I nap when he naps because I wake up exhausted as he normally wakes up 3 times at night. Motherhood is hard,I can't imagine having another little one depending on me, or maybe it gets better 🤔, sending hugs 🫂

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This is hardddddd

I knew being a mum wouldn’t be easy but I naively didn’t expect it to be this hard 😩 my 5 month old needs constant entertainment, I can’t even step out of the room to grab a drink without her crying.

Just wondering if anyone else is finding this as difficult as I am? I can’t say I’m particularly enjoying it and that makes me feel awful ☹️ I love her to pieces but wow I’ve never worked so hard and still felt like I was failing 😩

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My former best friend ditched me and im trying to understand why.

Im really just ranting here. Please be gentle with me. My best friend of 25 years , we were single , messy and childfree together and then she got pregnant at 18, got married and I was still a single loser and her forever sidekick. I was always always there helping her take care of her baby girl. And when her terrible no good husband cheated and left I was of course always there. Years later she got remarried to an amazing kind man and had another beautiful baby! I was still there babysitting so they could have date nights! I also got married to a long time friend and me and my husband baby sat for her all the time! We tried to get pregnant for years and years and even while we were trying ivf , we still baby sat at least once a month. Finally I had my first baby and I felt a complete shift from my friend. She never offered to throw a baby shower or anything like this first of all even though I threw TWO BABY SHOWERS, BACHELORETTES etc etc. Her and husband came to see us weeks after the baby was born and then there was a real real distance. I felt really weird like where are you.. I need you the most now. I dont know wtf im doing. I have much younger sister and brother so my mom is busy with them! Then when I had my second baby.. it was almost radio silence. She brought over a gift and that was it. She told us theyre planning to move to Colorado from where we live in Toronto for husbands work. Which is great im super happy for them but I just thought it was very weird about not being happy for me about my babies especially knowing I struggled with fertility etc. So she moved. And now she keeps flying back to Toronto all the time to see another friend of hers, who used to be just an acquaintance, this friend is single party girl, no husband or kids. Never calls or msgs me anymore. Is she upset that I had kids? I was still willing to babysit. I just needed to like figure out my own baby for a bit?? Like?? Wtf is the deal

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Back again..

Back on the app..again... all conversations fade off.. when i reply to posts of women saying they're desperate for new friends.. i get no replies or they fade off after a polite msg or two. Am I the only one who's never had a big group of girlfriends to hang out with? My kids are pre teen age and since the old teen drinking crowd faded off 15 years ago I'm still searching for basic friendship. Is it just me? 😔

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Looking for mom friends

Hi!! My name is Heaven I’m 34 I’ll be 35 in July! I am a ftm to boy/girl twins who will be 1 in July! They are NICU warriors🩷 I live in Dwight IL but travel EVERYWHERE. We go to the zoo. Museums. I’m in Oakbrook area A LOT visiting my mom. About me??

I love smut books.
I love cooking
I love fashion and makeup!
I’m into social media and content creation
I’m a scrunchy mom! 💉🌳
Looking to make new friends 🦋🦕

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Looking for mama friends

Need so mama friends to not feel so isolated. Unfortunately lose all my friends due to being in different stages in life and im hoping to make new friends to chat and possibly have play days or coffee etc.

Im 35 I have a 15 year old and 10month old I love animals and outdoors, nature trails going for a coffee going to parks with my son etc.
I cant see waves so message if you like to chat

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When making mom friends does their political affiliation matter to you?

In today’s political climate.

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