What does being a wife, girlfriend or a fiancee mean to u? What do those titles mean to u & what are ur duties & responsibilities?

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Choosing to do life as a team.

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To me titles don’t really mean anything, but I have a neurodivergent brain that can’t be in a long term relationship with someone I wouldn’t consider my best friend.

So on here I clicked mutual support instead of it meaning nothing

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All mean someone I have chosen to be on my team and build my life with. Each showing an outward display of commitment

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For me now as ive been all 3, it boils down to loyalty

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Mutual support can mean domestic work too. All depends on the dynamics and agreements. Some people enter a relationship wanting the homemaker role because it suits them and they seek characteristics that are not about sharing the same responsibilities. For me, the most important thing was presence as a father, so although I'm not keen on cooking or cleaning and I often need that support, I've had to grow up and fit into a role I always thought I'd hate, in order to prioritize what was most important to me, which isn't help with the domestic work - although I still get it when needed.

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For me, the title of wife is mostly dependent on his love for me. It’s more about what he does than what I do

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Baby’s surname

My partner messaged other women during my first trimester when I was signed off sick and struggling apparently I didn’t give him enough attention; since then he’s been lying constantly about anything and everything and even admitted he has a problem. He’s moved out and I’m 6 months pregnant already a single parent and juggling it all alone.
Of course he’s welcome to all appointments, the birth, and can be as involved as he likes but am I wrong in now considering taking his surname off the list and keeping mine?

He believes this gives him less of a connection to his son and makes him less of a dad?

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Am I in the wrong?!

My partner has asked if he can go play darts and out drinking tonight… I’m 38 weeks pregnant and we have a 7 year old. I never feel comfortable with him going out as he usually comes back in a state. I never stop him going but I just feel like he isn’t thinking about me. I dunno is it just me and my hormones?!

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What does being a wife, girlfriend or a fiancee mean to u? What do those titles mean to u & what are ur duties & responsibilities?

What does being a partner or spouse mean to u?

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need more mom friends

i got pregnant my senior year and when i did i lost alot of friends i graduated. all my friends are partying and out everyday they invite me ofc but i cant really go. i need more mommy friends so i can connect especially as a first time mom

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Do you take mental illnesses as seriously as physical illnesses?

Is it something that should be considered a disability that requires accommodations and legal protections and understanding from others? Or is it sad, but nothing close to a physical disability? This includes both children and adults

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“Gay” jokes

Does your bf/husband / partner make jokes about other guys or gay jokes? How do you go about it? Or am I missing something because my face is constantly 🫪👀🧐🤨🤨🤨🤨 when it comes up?

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