“Gay” jokes

My husband and his best friend do. But my best friend and I also joke that if our husbands die we'll just stay together too. I don't see any harm in joking around in secure relationships.

Did they work in the restaurant industry? Because I tell you what..... Those were some of the gayest straight men I have ever met!!! But no my husband does not lol

Not gay jokes in general, definitely not insensitive ones towards the gay community, maybe a “sounds gay, I’m in” comment, talking about pride events, he’d be single if he wouldn’t have already been an ally & totally secure in his sexuality, when I asked him out, but quips about a certain type of obviously closeted man, yeah, we both do. He’s not a big reader, so it was me who summed up the porn/homophobia case study for him when he was dealing w/ a particularly homophobic sales rep one day. 😂

What kind of jokes are being said? Some can be suspect. Can u give examples?

My husbands friend does but my husband never does. He might laugh or shake his head. However My ex husband would speak on how repulsed he is by gay people and would talk trash about them. He also made gay jokes with his friends every now and then. just for me to find his grinder account 🫠🥲🤣 but there were a lot more signs. His sex drive was weak unless what we were doing was EXTREMELY taboo. He has a hard time finishing. My husband now gets turned on just from looking at me and never has any issues. Always thought I was the problem with my ex husband till I found out he was literally gay 🙃

My husband used to say, your best friends not your best friend if you haven’t kissed him piss drunk 🤣 they’re all very comfortable in their sexuality in their car boy group lol. Mechanics are like that though.

I’d be concerned about it if it’s like ALL the time deflection, reminds me of the guys that talk shit on larger woman all the time and such, but then actually have a fetish for it.

My bf does it everywhere we go with his friends. At work when we go anywhere with his friends it's annoying ha