Cheater

Found out he’s cheating. Have a 3 year old and I’m 6 months pregnant. Have no money and nowhere to go. I cut contact with my toxic parents 4 years ago. Literally feel so stuck and sad and disrespected right now I have no idea what to do. I refuse to be with a “man” who cheats 🤮 I’m in the UK do I have any options for help? Someone please help me xx

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Would his parents be willing to help you? Or maybe a close friend

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you might have to stay and build a plan to leave including daycare and a job

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Stay until you can get out. Act normal. Business as usual. But contact lawyers. Learn your rights. Build a plan. Be safe! 🫶🏻

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😔 ❤️

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Make him think you forgive him, while you plan your exit.
Guilt trip him as much as possible, so that it'll hurt when you do leave him and he thinks it came out of nowhere.
(I sound evil. I love it)

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