Trying to bring c section forward due to PSTD and anxiety

Has anyone successfully done this? My first son was born via emergency c section and then he had to have multiple operations in his first year of life, plus he has chronic illnesses now so it’s all a bit much. I said I wasn’t having anymore children but had a drunken accident one night and here we are.

My section is booked for almost 40w exactly and I want to bring it forward. I’m constantly up MAU, paying for private scans and making myself throw up with anxiety. Nobody quite understands until you’ve had a traumatic birth, nearly 💀and then had a really ill baby.

I’ve requested to bring it forward to 39w exactly and the midwife thinks due to my mental health history it’s the best idea. I suppose it’s down to the theatre team now 😭

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I have ! I have spoken to my consultant. Asked and explained why i needed it earlier then 40 … i asked for 38 and he agreed.. my boy was born at 38+2 on monday 11th of may x

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Are you under a perinatal mental health team? I have most success when my psychiatrist also speaks to them on my behalf. X

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They let me bring mine forward to 38+4 purely for logistics. I’m 2.5 hours from the hospital x

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Trying to bring c section forward due to PSTD and anxiety

Has anyone successfully done this? My first son was born via emergency c section and then he had to have multiple operations in his first year of life, plus he has chronic illnesses now so it’s all a bit much. I said I wasn’t having anymore children but had a drunken accident one night and here we are.

My section is booked for almost 40w exactly and I want to bring it forward. I’m constantly up MAU, paying for private scans and making myself throw up with anxiety. Nobody quite understands until you’ve had a traumatic birth, nearly 💀and then had a really ill baby.

I’ve requested to bring it forward to 39w exactly and the midwife thinks due to my mental health history it’s the best idea. I suppose it’s down to the theatre team now 😭

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