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my husband watches porn because sex became too painful 5 months into pregnancy. I discovered that one day and confronted him and told him that I didn’t like it and it made me feel insecure and uncomfortable, but I also want him to get stress relief out as I would want the same respect so I moved on from it and learned to be OK that he watches porn but the other day I saw the website chatturbate which is live cam girls where you can interact with them and send them tips. I saw it on his phone and his searches where it shows up frequently visited sites and I confronted him and he told me that he didn’t do that. He would never pay for porn and you have to pay for it to really enjoy it and that he has no reason to lie to me, but I don’t believe him because I also caught him lying about something else and I just wanna know if my feelings of being uncomfortable that he watches porn are valid not and if I’m being stupid by believe him because I really don’t believe him, but I also think you need to pick your battles but I think if he’s on chaturbate that’s cheating
thoughts???
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Caught porn on my partners phone and threw it against the wall 🙃 it's a no from me! X
Not defending him, but when he’s watching porn there can be pop ups and it does vary on the website but chaturbate is a very popular pop up so he may not be actually watching it and it’s only because he frequents another site that has it as a pop up🤷🏻♀️ i think if you’ve found evidence of him going on actual profiles on there then it’s different but if it’s just the main page then that could be the reason? Regardless, if you feel uncomfortable with it then you’re uncomfortable with it. Every person has different boundaries and if not watching porn is one of yours then that’s a serious discussion that needs to be had. If you think it’s cheating then thats all you need. I personally don’t mind if my partner does, but that’s our relationship and my opinion. I think it’s a matter of where do you draw the line and what do you want the outcome to be, what is the dealbreaker? Much love 💗💗
valid.
Porn is a No in my marriage, as you can see one thing leads to another and a man cannot stop himself nor draw a line between what he should and shouldn’t do. It’s better to place that boundary ( in hopes he respects it) so that he avoids crossing any further lines down the road.
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