Sleep deprived

Me and baby haven’t had any sleep at all for the past 3-4 nights as my baby won’t stop moving even for a minute, she won’t sleep at all even during day time she’s slept for like 30 minutes for each nap and at night time she fully awake, like even when she’s eventually drowsy she’s still wriggling all night and she won’t even sleep on me because she does the same while being held too😭 I’m doing everything right, my first born wasn’t like this at all, what should I do? 😭

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Arguing with husband during nightly wake ups

Hi guys,
We have a 22 month old who still wakes once or twice a night. She's always been a poor sleeper, so this is actually a big improvement. My husband and I take turns with night wake-ups, but lately he's started taking ages to respond when it's his turn, and it's driving me mad.
I'll hear our daughter crying and getting more upset while he just lies there watching the monitor, then goes downstairs for a drink or faffs about before finally going to her. By then, what could have been a quick cuddle and dummy often turns into a much longer ordeal because she's fully awake and distressed.
His reasoning is that she's older now and he wants to give her a chance to resettle herself. I understand that when she's calm and just stirring and she has been known to do this on occasion put herself back to sleep. But he's also doing it when she's actively crying and calling for us. To me, that's very different and a sign she needs comfort.
The other issue is that once I'm awake, I struggle to get back to sleep, whereas he can fall asleep instantly. The whole point of taking turns is that the other parent gets a chance to rest, but I'm often lying there awake listening to her cry while he waits. I’m then up for hours.

A few times I've ended up going in to sort her myself because I can't bear listening to it any longer. Plus I want to get it done so I can try get back to sleep. I’m so tired and it’s adding real negative vibes in the night because I wanna scream at him. I’m so resentful towards him by the morning i practically don’t even wanna talk to him.

I’ve tried to talk to him but it’s falling on deaf ears. I need advice or opinions.

I feel isolated and defeated

On May 25th a baby in family passed away.. she was only 5 months old

Her parents are lying about the cause of death and I knew because the mother told someone I know
I reported this to the hospital she passed away at… My family thinks I did the wrong thing by reporting this before the baby was buried and that I should’ve waited because “god was going to handle it” or some other bullshit excuses… I reported it on Friday, 4 days after she passed away.. My family is ignoring me and calling me mean names and telling me it’s not my business to do what I did but I don’t see how I’m wrong because this is a baby that lost her life due to unsafe cosleeping. She was suffocated by her dad in both of their sleep from what I’m being told and they told the hospital she was suffocated in her crib by a blanket. My thing is why lie? I wouldn’t lie about this if I was innocent.. I guess I’m ranting because I’m hurt my family isn’t on my side in reporting this… I loved my family so much and now it’s just me, my man, and our child..

Is this normal? 😔

My baby will be 11 months old soon, she's very happy and smiley with her daddy and I. She's babbling a lot, a very good eye contact, respondes her name normally, she can copy if I make fun noise, points to the animals she knows in the book etc.. Also has met her physical milestones on time (in the cruising phase now), my concern is she gets overwhelmed quite quickly. also doesn't get along with other people, dosent smile, just turns to me and holds me tightly . When I take her to a baby class (once a week) she gets nervous (not crying but chewing on the things and a bit scared face) and very different from herself at home with us. Another example is I took her to soft play a few time recently and I can see other babies in her age play and are more relaxed but she's seems a bit shocked and scared or I can say overexcited maybe? Has anyone else have a baby like this? I can't stop thinking about autism

Post C section period

Hello ladies ! I’m a bit worried… 7weeks post partum today started bleeding two days ago ..not soaking any pad yet just at wiping there’s bleeding but I have lower back pain /period like pain/ scar pain feeling inside and boobs are super sore … im exclusively breastfeeding. Now since I’m breastfeeding no one mention that period can return this early so I’m worried if it’s the beginning of my period or something else happening?

Post c section only bled for a week then fully stopped , bleeding never was heavy almost didn’t required pads. Pls share your thoughts 🙏🏻

Why did you stop breastfeeding?

And how old was your baby?

Baby won't settle

My baby is 8 weeks on Tuesday and it seems a constant battle each night to get her off to sleep for the first time. Once she has a sleep she will wake up and feed back to sleep throughout the night but to get her to sleep in the first place is an absolute nightmare !

Any advice??

We aim to be in bed for 9pm each night but some nights she won't go to sleep until midnight or 1am