Potty training query..

My little one will be 2 on June 21st. She seems ready to potty training, tells me when she needs to poo/tells me when she's done a poo, can hold her urine for up a long time etc. The problem I have is I'm trying to bare bottom method and this morning she held her urine all morning and then started telling me she needed a wee and was saying ouch but wouldn't let it go on the potty, only letting a few drops out. She wouldn't go until I put her nappy on and it was a huge wee then! Does this mean she isn't ready? Or is there anything I can do to encourage her to wee on the potty? I try not to put any pressure on but just lightly reminding her that if she needs a wee wee to go on the potty etc. Any advice would be great, even if it's telling me she isn't ready. We are on day 2 of no nappy. I'm a FTM so feel like I'm going in blind 🤣

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feeling a little insecure because everyday im reminded im not his type. He follows so many women and comments in their TikToks and i see they all the same race… smh am i wasting my youth here?

Need marriage advice please

Hello,
My husband and I are going through a rough patch and I’m hoping to get some advice.
I was recently diagnosed with endometriosis. It is a chronic inflammatory disease and it can cause me to be in quite a bit of pain. When I got my diagnosis I was really struggling mentally. I was scared and upset that this was something I would have to deal with for the rest of my life. In this time when I really needed emotional support he wasn’t there for me. I brought this up many times over the past 5 months and he always says he will do better but there’s been little improvement. Another moment came up today so I had to bring it up again.
I asked him to be honest with me about what he thinks and feels about the problems we are having and he said he’s doing too much. He said for him to emotionally support me he needs me to do all the laundry, cook all meals, do cleaning, grocery shopping, let him shower and go on a run everyday when he gets off of work (meaning I get no help with the baby), and take care of our two dogs all while I take care of our one year old. He said then he would feel taken care of.
To me this feels like he’s asking a lot of me even if I didn’t have a chronic disease.
What do you guys think?

What should I do

At the moment I am sick of house work, sick of cleaning up after every idiot in this house (I love them but I’m really over everyone’s behaviour and selfishness) and I’m struggling mentally with caring for a toddler, dealing with a moody teenager and a partner who is never home.

I’ve had a migraine for over a week, I have my period yet I’m still on my feet picking up after everyone while everyone just does their own fucking thing and doesn’t think twice about helping.

I’m just snapping at everyone cause I’m just so tired of everything. They still don’t give a fuck.

I don’t need help with the above stuff, I want to know, what the fuck can I do to refresh? What can I do for myself to mentally relax and calm down & regulate my nervous system so I can get back to slaving around for these assholes?

I have my first full day to myself in almost two years next week as I've booked a day off work and my youngest will be at nursery 🎉🎉

Its going to raining which is slightly annoying but it should still be so nice to just have my own company for the day.

I have a few ideas of what I'd like to do but I'm still deciding.

(Watch this be a day that the nursery call in the morning to say my toddler has a temperature or something so needs collecting 🤣)

Need advice

I’m not sure what to do anymore.
My son’s dad is just making my life a nightmare. My son and I live at my apartment and his dad lives with his mom and grandma.
Well my son’s dad isn’t working. He actually isn’t doing anything with his life at the moment.
He’s supposed to be the one helping me but that isn’t working out.
My son isn’t allowed to go to his dad’s house alone because I don’t trust him to watch our boy alone. Yes he has family but they don’t always have my son. My son is special needs, almost 4 yrs old, non verbal.

Well I get SSI and food benefits from the state. Basically my son’s dad thinks I need to provide them food at his house. I’m already struggling with gas. Something my ex cannot help with. He can’t help with nothing since he’s not working.
Then on top of all that my son’s dad is a man child, a real Peter Pan. So he throws tantrums and all that yelling. So emotional abuse too.
Now I tell this guy we are done. Shit I been moved out over a year now. He tells me we’re not done and he continues to do this cycle to me then the coercin is bad too. Sex, almost everything is abusive.

Now I understand I have to communicate with him but how in the hell can I convince him we are NOT together. He just doesn’t get it, I’ve even translated my sentences to a variety of different languages.

I’m not sure how I can prove to him that he’s not my problem anymore?
Also no, I don’t want to go with my son to his dads, I want to work on myself and be with someone else one day.

How can I escape him with the bare minimum communication?

I'm so done

I am heavily regretting marrying my husband. He doesn't want to do anything and argues with me about everything. We recently moved to a smaller place so now instead of 3 rooms we have 2 that need to function as our babies room, our room, and a living room. I tried telling him that the baby should be in the bedroom and all he wants to do is argue because he doesn't want to move the bedframe but if we put the baby in the other room our living room becomes unusable once our baby goes to bed because the living room and her room would be the same space. I don't know what to do and I'm so frustrated being the only one trying to get everything done while he just sits around messing around on his phone constantly. I can't move the bedframe by myself but he refuses to move it. What do I do?