So basically, how would you girls feel if your partner only took notice of you for his own sexual pleasure without making you feel loved, wanted & appreciated? So basically, my partner will only take notice of me when he wants something, no compliments - if I show him an outfit on and I feel good every thing is “looks ok” but will compliment himself. Tell him I need to feel loved and wanted to and he goes “I gave you a cuddle the other day” - just to clarify he said and I quote “come here go I can feel your 🍒”. He told me he sees nothing wrong with it and I’m just saying all this stuff and he will never be good enough?? Am I wrong for being upset over this?? I want a partner not just feel like I’m here for someone’s pleasure.
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I would definitely feel frustrated and like my needs are not prioritized/important. Not sure if you’ve tried to express how this is impacting you, if not I think that would be a good discussion to have, if you have and you feel he’s still not hearing you, maybe consider a different approach to the convo?

this is what i expect from friends with benefits not from a proper relationship or marriage
defo time for a serious conversation if it’s upsetting you

Sensitive? This is enough to make me leave. You deserve someone sweeping you off your muthafuckin feet DAILY!!

This is typical narcissistic behavior. Not using the word as a catch all, I’m a therapist and this is screaming that.
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