I feel so alone

My baby is everything to me, i love him so so much but im so lonely, I don’t have any friends that relate, or even any friends at all, Ive always had a hard time making friends and became harder once i got pregnant, my husband’s life didn’t stop or change once baby was born, but mine did and i feel so alone, he doesn’t understand what i feel, and feel like he never will fully understand how lonely motherhood, postpartum can be

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Yeah it’s a lonely journey for sure. I never felt so isolated before

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Same here. Everything happens for a reason I love my son so much he the best thing I happen to me honestly and I changed a lot . I feel like being alone prevents a lot of bs ! Your baby will fill all that void your feelings 💙 stay up girls

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I completely get it girl. Our lives just had this major adjustment and it feels like everyone is the same which technically is the case but its alot to adjust to when your time is spent loving this human you brought into the world when you should be healing and figuring out who this new version of you is

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Could anyone offer advice? I put my little one into nursery before returning to work. She's now one and goes three days a week. I've handed my notice into my work as they've made my life so so difficult. I'm trying to find another job however I feel it's unlikely I'll get another job before I have to reconfirm my code. Has that happened to anyone? It says on Google there is a grace period. I will finish working my notice a month before the reconfiguration is up. Will they give me 3 more months?

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What to do when you are an immigrant with a tourist visa that is inspired by 3 months pregnant

Of 3 months is abandoned by whom you were totally financially dependent, who now says that you are not the father of the baby and our baby was planned, last Monday my ex-boyfriend assaulted me and opened my head I called the ambulance and he was arrested but it was not my intention he would go to jail I just wanted to know if everything was okay with me and the baby, he paid bail and was released and now he can’t get close to me and said he won’t pay my bills anymore and I don’t work I’m totally dependent on him, he also said that this child is not his now I’m here in this apartment that I have to deliver on the 8th because he cancelled the contract, I can’t go back to Brazil because I wouldn’t be able to stay there pregnant without working, now I’m here without knowing what to do but I don’t want to ask for help from the government because I would have to

It’s so hard to be me 😭😭😭😭 everything was so beautiful 1 week ago and now it seems like a nightmare.

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Maternity pay

Iv left my maternity form
so late. I only sent my form off on Friday. How long is it roughly until I would get a payment? From the state not an employer as I’m
Self employed. Thanks!

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If you was stuck in a pickle and all of your bills hit you all at once and you been missing hours at work which bill is more important to be paid especially if you are already behind
( except on rent ) which one would you make sure is paid

On your next payday which one would you make sure is paid FIRST. I'm asking because I'm in this exact situation and idk what to do...

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Hey moms I’m a c section mom struggling with apron belly & DR. I recently realised simple exercise can help to improve our core muscles strength just 30minutes a day ! Once your core muscles are strong you can work on tightening your belly !
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I need a job that isn't teaching. I am un the UK (Yorkshire)

I don't want to work with kids I don't think anymore. I am utterly exhausted holding 30 kids feelings and manging them, including my own then coming home and doing the same for my kids. I feel like my kids get the sh*t part of me. The mum that's kmackered

That said, teaching pays well. I get all school holidays. I'm part time (unicorn job in teaching). I work in a lovely school. I love teaching , I'm just exhausted.

I have no idea what to do or where o look or what move to make.

I often think I'd like working in a museum, you know where they do workshops with kids. I like reading and writing. I'm good with projects and managing my own time. I've been SLT so experience line managing people.

Does anyone have any suggestions or words of advice ? Thank you

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