Sad 🥺💔
What to do when you are an immigrant with a tourist visa that is inspired by 3 months pregnant
Of 3 months is abandoned by whom you were totally financially dependent, who now says that you are not the father of the baby and our baby was planned, last Monday my ex-boyfriend assaulted me and opened my head I called the ambulance and he was arrested but it was not my intention he would go to jail I just wanted to know if everything was okay with me and the baby, he paid bail and was released and now he can’t get close to me and said he won’t pay my bills anymore and I don’t work I’m totally dependent on him, he also said that this child is not his now I’m here in this apartment that I have to deliver on the 8th because he cancelled the contract, I can’t go back to Brazil because I wouldn’t be able to stay there pregnant without working, now I’m here without knowing what to do but I don’t want to ask for help from the government because I would have to
It’s so hard to be me 😭😭😭😭 everything was so beautiful 1 week ago and now it seems like a nightmare.
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im sorry to hear you’re dealing with all this.
even if you’re in a tourist visa, you can get help for domestic abuse and emergency housing. please try reach out to women’s aid or refuge. they can help with advice, housing and yours and babies safety.
Are you in the United States?
Depending on what state you live in usually there are programs for your specific situation.
I’m almost 99% certain you’ll qualify for the domestic violence program for visa holding residents that are available for you. What state are you in. I’m going to look up some information for you
Your midwife should be able to help you as well and get you the right support that you need x
Women's refuge should be able to help. You might be visiting but citizens advise should also be able to help you.
I learned about this because I had a friend who went exactly through this. I spoke to the police department and everything and helped her through it. This was in Texas and they have programs for that here. But again not sure what state you’re in.
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