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Im due in November 2026- makes me 15 weeks +1 currently

When is a right time to start buying things ?

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I would personally say from 12 weeks. Or whenever you feel your ready to to be honest x

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girl im 16 weeks and I’ve started buying things

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I’m waiting for my 20 week scan (1st of July) as that means we are officially half way and can start to knuckle down on some things :) x

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I started at 30 weeks + as I had my baby shower at 32 weeks and didn’t want to have repeated items and it was a chance for friends and family to get me what I actually need.

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I started at 12 weeks , but its when ever it feels right for you 💕🥰

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I’m also 15+1 🥰 we started buying things last week, but I don’t think there’s a right time in a sense, make sure it feels right for you! 🥰

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Im due in November 2026- makes me 15 weeks +1 currently

When is a right time to start buying things ?

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High blood pressure

I just got diagnosed with pregnancy induced hypertension and been put on a double dose of meds; was planning on a birth centre birth;

triage at hospital said it should be okay but midwife is unsure I will qualify 😭

most annoying thing is I’ve been mentioning that my usually low blood pressure has been higher than normal and you could see it getting higher with every appointment but got told it’s not over the threshold; maybe if they listened it could’ve been managed earlier 😭

Has anyone qualified for the birth centre with blood pressure medication if it stabilised while on it?

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The pressure down below is unbearable

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Am I overreacting or would this interaction with my doctor upset you too? 😅

To give some context… I’ve honestly been avoiding the scale a little this pregnancy because it gives me anxiety.

Today I had an appointment and finally got weighed, and I got worried because I gained more than I thought I had. I asked my doctor if it was normal and if there was anything I could do or any recommendations he had.

At first I also asked him about some sciatic/joint pain and pressure I’ve been feeling, and he was already coming across kind of cold and dismissive. But when I asked about the weight gain, the conversation got really intense.

He basically told me “you know how to eat healthy,” and when I tried explaining that pregnancy has changed my body, hunger levels, cravings, etc., and that I was just looking for guidance/reassurance, he got very harsh. He kept saying he’s “not a nutritionist,” and then eventually told me I was “hurting my baby,” being “selfish,” that I had “mental problems,” “body dysmorphia,” and needed therapy.

At that point I started crying because of how he was talking to me, and he still kept going. My husband even stepped in and tried to soften the conversation.

Now I honestly don’t know if I’m overreacting because hormones/emotions are high right now… or if that was actually not okay bedside manner from a doctor?

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