why most of the MIL is bitch and don’t know their boundaries. She made my postpartum phase very difficult… I am fed up of her everyday drama and if i call out her behaviour she plays the victim card and start her emotional drama in front of her Son and make everything around so stressfull..
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Mine literally just wore a white dress to my vow renewal, I also asked her if she wanted to be in pictures she told me no she had to take care of the food (she cooked) and the sent me several passive aggressive messages after saying how she was only in one picture and her family doesn’t believe she was really at the wedding

I finally cut mine off. I could handle it all until I had my daughter. I would bring stuff up to my husband and nothing would happen. I let it go on longer than it should have but I cut them off. And it was like a weight had be lifted.

There the worst tbh 🙄 mine won’t even take her grandsons together for a night so I can go to my best friends mums funeral pathetic n hubbys off today so almost garunteed she gonna show up

I have never experienced this.
Both my ex husband’s mom and my current husband’s mum are delightful.
I’m sorry you are having issues maintaining boundaries with her. I hope your husband is supportive and doesn’t make things worse.

Mine is the same way, things are fine and she’s actually semi fun to be around as long as everyone caters to her and placates her and doesn’t return her petty energy whenever she chooses to dish it out but god forbid someone stands their ground or makes a boundary she’s becomes a nightmare