Ovulation

So my partner and I are planning on having a child. He’s very keen and I already have one. We started trying last month but haven’t been successful yet. I’m tracking my ovulation. Says tomorrow I ovulate. We are very sexually active as a couple but he’s struggles to finish when he knows I’m in green days. He says it’s that the added pressure of knowing he needs to finish makes it difficult for him. Has anyone else experienced this? Please comment opinions…

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Don’t tell him when you’re fertile. Hopefully then he’ll relax more. Good luck and baby dust.

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I’d say this is normal, the first month my husband and I tried we were pretty scared, even though we were ready, so it wasn’t the most enjoyable.

If you’re already very sexually active I would say you don’t need to do anything other than stopping using contraception. Tracking things can put pressure on and not be helpful.

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Yep, my husband never had trouble finishing until we were trying. We were also having sex a lot more than we were used to. It took a while but eventually he got used to every other day & he stopped struggling to finish but it took a while.

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So my partner and I are planning on having a child. He’s very keen and I already have one. We started trying last month but haven’t been successful yet. I’m tracking my ovulation. Says tomorrow I ovulate. We are very sexually active as a couple but he’s struggles to finish when he knows I’m in green days. He says it’s that the added pressure of knowing he needs to finish makes it difficult for him. Has anyone else experienced this? Please comment opinions…

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