Marriage problems

My husband and I have been arguing a lot, our daughter in 13months old. He says the most horrible things to me when we have these arguments. Today he said he is disgusted in the person ive become. It cuts so deep as I have given everything to our daughter this last 1 + year, and to hear the person who you thought would understand the most say that he thinks that of you.

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a lot of time in circumstances similar to what you stated, its not that you have a marriage problem, its that you have a morals problem. What’s you and your husbands moral compass like?

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It just seems like yall dont have any sort of communication skills. Sounds like yall go for the heart because u know it will hurt the other person instead of getting to the root of ur problems

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Why disgusted ?

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So in other words he can’t handle it & takes it out on you then expects you to do everything?!

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Even when we he is mad, or you, attack of character shouldn’t be happening. Discussing someone’s behaviour that you don’t agree with is different, and allowing them to reflect with you. He sounds immature and trying to put you down.

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My husband and I have been arguing a lot, our daughter in 13months old. He says the most horrible things to me when we have these arguments. Today he said he is disgusted in the person ive become. It cuts so deep as I have given everything to our daughter this last 1 + year, and to hear the person who you thought would understand the most say that he thinks that of you.

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