School for my boys..

I just wanted to share something funny that I’m sure we’ve all done or will do when are kids are not with us.

My kids started school for the summer for a couple hours, so when I get back I do as much as I can while they’re gone.
Today I’m catching up on the piles of clean clothes I need to fold.
& as I sit on my bed and put the tv on I automatically go to Netflix on my kids account to put on a kid show 😂
Instead of my account to find a show for myself.. thought it was really funny & trying to get accustomed of doing things for me while they’re at school.

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What do you do in these situations?

We had a lovely big trip planned for today to Chessington. The whole family. Grandparents, cousins etc.
My 5 year old has been absolutely awful, not listening last night so I thought I’d give her the benefit of the doubt. But she’s been awake since 5;30 this morning, come into her sisters bedroom who is 2 and jumped on her playfully but hurt her, both myself and her dad asked her to stop but she continued and now my 2 year old is in bits. On top of that she was rude to my husband when he asked her to leave the room, and now I really don’t want to take her to Chessington because why should she?! Her behaviour is awful.
But it means myself my husband and our 2 year old missing out too. And I don’t want to punish our 2 year old for something she hasn’t done. I’ve got no one else to leave our 5 year old with because everyone is going today.
What do you do in these situations? How do you punish one without it being unfair on the other?

Help at home??

My fellow sahm’s..does your partner contribute to helping with ANY chores/tasks around the home?? Beyond basic cleaning, I take out the garbage, fix all of the small repairs (clogged pipes, changing lightbulbs etc) he doesn’t do so much as just picking up after himself. I will leave house spotless and go to sleep and throughout the night while he’s awake will leave all his drinks, snacks, trash, clothing, work stuff etc out on the floor and tables and it looks like a hurricane ran through the place and I start my day off with a complete mess over and over again. I’m cleaning up the same messes everyday with no help. Im already running around cleaning up the babies and my own messes all day, it takes me a lot more time with these conditions. Is this inconsiderate of him or simply just my job?

Please help me

Me and my bf have a 22 month old, but my bf just doesn’t really ever help around the house or anything.. we are not a priority. He likes to sniff Ketamine and drink, he is also in debt and owes me a fair amount of money.
I am at the point of feeling like i need and want to split up with him, I am not happy. But for some reason i feel so guilty splitting up with him and asking him to move out.
Please can i have advice or something as i just feel completely drained and lost right now.
Do i end the relationship?

What to do when home all day with baby

What does everyone do at home with their 9 month old? I don’t have family close by and my partner works full time, I’m finding it so hard to fill the days and I struggle to play all day. I let my baby have independent play but unsure what to do with myself when he’s playing? When you have days at home all day do you play with your babies constantly? Really struggling 😭

Teething question

Hey guys!

My Lo lower guns look like this. How long does it take for the tooth to cut through.

She's 7 month old and hasn't had any teeth yet.

Weekly Grocery shop spend $$$

Can I ask what is everyone spending on there weekly groceries for a family of 4(1 & 3 year old) . Any advice or tips to keep food costs down? Thanks beautiful people x