Struggling maintaining friendships

Does anyone else have the issue of maintaining friendships? At the minute and for the last few years I literally have 0 friends, every friend I’ve pretty much ever had have been the using type to only want to know you when it benefits them so I’ve always cut off. I would rather have no friends then waste valuable time on people like that but honestly it does wind me up because everyone I know has such trustworthy relationships with friends and see them regularly. I’ve never been able to find it where effort goes both ways.

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What I would class as friends are actually my work colleagues, I have very few people in my life that are there for me the way I am there for them, I understand. I am new on here, just trying to interact people so I don’t feel so alone, and I know that’s the best I can do. If someone wants to stay in your life they will make the effort to do so, I’ve learnt that the hard way too. Just reaching out is enough to know you are not alone in what you are going through, that’s why I’m on here, I’m trying to heal

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Me! Turns out since having my son, I’ve realised I’m neurodivergent so it explains a lot!

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So u can go incognito and block people from replying to your new replies bashing people? Define addicts? That’s why u posted all incognito scared to show ur face. Can’t even stand on a word you say yet tryna stand on putting other women down… get a life

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Periods & holidays

I don’t travel but plan to start soon with my husband and kids.

The thing that I wonder about is how women can enjoy holidays with their period? I guess if you’re super regular maybe you could schedule holidays to avoid that date? Or you don’t care if you get your period? Or you’re on bc that stops your period?

I don’t use any hormonal bc, only copper iud. I have taken the period delay tablets 1 time last year for a short trip and it made me soooo moody! I have irregular cycles so I would not ever be able to schedule a holiday around my period. But if I was in the week prior to my period or the week of my period on holiday, it would ruin it for me completely.

That sounds dramatic, but I’m serious. What do you do?

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rose during sex 🌹

hey guys. so this is a 2 part question, feel free to respond to both or whichever one you see fit —

my rose has been in a drawer collecting dust for monthsss and i’ve been thinking about introducing it to our sex life, particularly during intercourse. those who use or have used it while having sex, did it make a difference? would you recommend? tips?

& two, how can i bring this up to my husband without him raising questions? i’m nervous, i don’t want him to think he isn’t satisfying me based on the fact that i want to add a sex toy to the mix, i love what he does and he satisfys me well enough. sometimes i just want the extra stimulation, i want to spice things up while being in the heat of the moment as well not just going off teasing, foreplay, etc. i’m sure it will benefit us both at the end of the day.

TIA .

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Where you at bestie ?

Heyyy! Looking for someone who’s out going and likes to chat and ft ! 💬
Need someone I can talk to about everything 🫶🏽
I’m into all kinds of music, art, thrifting, painting coloring. 🎨
I also like to get outside. 💃🏾
I have a dark sense of humor, so if you get offended easily don’t bother 🦇
I’m a good listener👂and I try to give the best advice.
I’m okay with long distance too.
Message me 💜

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White Rice

My heritage is Mexican but we’ve got a few generations who have been born here in the States. I did not grow up eating Mexican food on a regular.

I’ve actually been in the mood for chipotle style white rice.So,I looked it up and making it for the first time!Im nervous and excited at the same time…I’ll keep yall posted about it later 😉😎

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Just looking for some friends

I’m 38 and I suffer with anxiety and depression and my daughter is my biggest achievement I just hope n pray she doesn’t take after me I just need and want some friends

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