Does anyone else have the issue of maintaining friendships? At the minute and for the last few years I literally have 0 friends, every friend I’ve pretty much ever had have been the using type to only want to know you when it benefits them so I’ve always cut off. I would rather have no friends then waste valuable time on people like that but honestly it does wind me up because everyone I know has such trustworthy relationships with friends and see them regularly. I’ve never been able to find it where effort goes both ways.
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What I would class as friends are actually my work colleagues, I have very few people in my life that are there for me the way I am there for them, I understand. I am new on here, just trying to interact people so I don’t feel so alone, and I know that’s the best I can do. If someone wants to stay in your life they will make the effort to do so, I’ve learnt that the hard way too. Just reaching out is enough to know you are not alone in what you are going through, that’s why I’m on here, I’m trying to heal

Me! Turns out since having my son, I’ve realised I’m neurodivergent so it explains a lot!