What would you say is a reason you’d cut ties with a friend? Or a friend deal breaker.
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Emotional leeching. I can handle a bit of trauma dump, but when it's constant, and you make no effort to fix your life, I just don't have the emotional bandwidth or patience for that nonsense.
Also, insane levels of defensiveness that prevent you from ever taking accountability or bettering yourself from your mistakes. With that sort of rigidity I know you're never going to grow as a person and I don't have time for it.

Friends that say they are ride or dies but then judge you for life decisions or dont agree with what your doing. Im sorry if you cant stick by me in my messy chapters, dont expect to be with me in my good chapters

Not accepting something about you you can't change