Am I doing something wrong?

I just had a C-section last Monday. I am able to do things but not unless I take my pain meds as prescribed. My partner is here to help me but he sleeps very hard and very deep. He can sleep through the baby crying sometimes. He tells me to wake him up and I try very hard but it always leads to us arguing. Last night it was pretty bad. He claims I kicked him in the rib cage which I didn’t. I did however use my foot to rub his sides. Mind you, before all this I tapped him, talked to him, etc. He responded but I guess it was a fluke because he doesn’t remember that. Only when I “kicked” him.

Today I did it all. Got our 5 year old out the door and been with our 2 week old all day. He came home from dropping off our 5 yo and has been sleep ever since because he said he’s only been getting 3 hours of rest. Am I wrong to start resenting him?

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Are these red flags from my boyfriend and how do you move forward?

My boyfriend and I are on vacation and I was on my cycle and got blood on my bikini while we’re at the pool with our daughter. I accidentally sat on one of our daughters new stuffed animal and got a bit of blood on it. So I wrapped the stuffed animal with a towel and also quickly wrapped a towel around myself. As we’re walking away going to get our kid to go to our room, I realize my towel is falling off and ask him to plz grab the stuffed animal from me (which is wrapped in a towel) so I can keep my towel from falling off. He moves his hand away and says ew, then he goes I’m not just gonna touch that like that. So I go why are you acting like a damn sissy like you haven’t seen my blood before (he’s watched me give birth). So he gets so upset by my comment and starts telling me how I’m so disrespectful. I keep walking and tell him it’s not the time since our kid was coming up to us. Then, we get to the room and instead of letting me wash off first, he hops in the shower before I could even think about it. So eventually we talked and he apologized but I just don’t like that behavior and did not expect him to act like this in that moment. We’ve been together for yearss and I know he’s not a squeamish person when it comes to blood. So when I asked he basically said he felt it was gross that I expected him to just grab the stuffie without making sure it’s properly wrapped first when it was. But am
I crazy for feeling like it shouldn’t be that big of a deal for him to grab it with or without it being wrapped in a towel ? It’s my blood not a strangers. But anyway idk what’s up with men sometimes. He was so upset the rest of the day he told our daughter he didn’t wanna give her a hug or a kiss when she asked. Like yall he’s a good man when it comes to many things but he does stuff like this and I’m like wtf am I doing with him? We’re supposed to get married soon and I’m questioning all of that based on some of these things I’ve been noticing lately.

Lack of interest in partner normal?

Resentment and disinterest towards my partner. I only received one month maternity leave and I had to go back to work immediately after that luckily, my job is flexible and allow me to work from home for an extra month with a valid doctors note since I had a C-section but now it’s been two months and I’m back working and I’m miserable but I don’t show it at work and I have sour taste towards my partner for reasons that I don’t even understand. I feel that he could just be very lazy sometimes and I do the bulk of the work taking care of baby, cleaning the house, picking up after him, working for 40-50 hours a week then coming home exhausted. He was like this before I don’t know why it bothers me so much now. He’s a good guy and respects me and I think he makes a good dad. What is wrong with me? Is it the hormones and me being away from my baby or what?

How to deal with terrible neighbors?

I’m not sure how to handle this situation. My neighbors are not the friendliest people and have a long history with the cops but we’ve addressed the issue before with littering in our yard. There’s a gate there so they are now intentionally throwing their trash how to handle this situation. I don’t know. I just don’t want it to fall back on me and my son and our safety.

15mo Not Eating Well & Making himself Gag

My 15mo boy is not eating very much anymore and all the things he liked he now refuses & then he sticks his hands in his mouth to the point it makes him gag & I dont know why or what to do
First time mum & worrying.
He only really eats Weetabix with a mashed banana & potato waffles or potato based items and crisps or biscuits & yogurts. Occasionally eats chicken nuggets too.
he used to eat more happily like blueberries/grapes/kiwi but now won't even pick them up & veggies are the same. He also doesn't drink milk anymore since the switch from formula, he won't touch it.

I don't know why he's making himself gag either.

Help a stressed mumma please 😔

Fighting with fiancee 7 months post partum

My fiancee just ignores me all the time and sits on his phone. Then he gets mad at me because I'm yelling to get his attention BECAUSE Ive repeated myself 4 times to help me with the baby or 4 year old. Am I going crazy ? WHY DONT MEN LISTEN ! and am I unreasonable for being so angry about it ?

Is it just me?

I’m 34 weeks and nothing is ready. My hospital bag isn’t packed, the crib isn’t set up, all of baby’s stuff is in a corner in our room waiting to be sorted and washed because I have no space to put it. My husband has started jobs like painting the bathroom and not finished. I’ve asked him to build something and put up shelves which isn’t getting done and although he works full time I feel it’s holding me back from being able to organise things. I am starting to get annoyed with it all now. I feel like there’s no help and the flat is just getting on top of me now with all the clutter :-(